I really feel bad - I need comfort!

[rockys lil girl]

Well girls ill try to make this short ive been very sad cause back in 2006 i cheated on my man he knows and everything and he has forgaven me for what i did but the thing is that it makes me sad to think that he was the bigger person and forgave me like nothing his words to me was look i understand that u where sad and lonely just forget about it i love you and im willing to forget and forgive you just dont do it again and after all this my mother in law has kept it cool like if i havent done nothing well when i left my man back in 2006 he had some sort of paralysis on his face and he wasnt doing all that great i just feel sad that i did this to him and live with it all day every day how do i get over the fact that i cheated on him and he has forgaven me some adivse????

[rodeointx]

you have to forgive your self. if he has truly forgiven you then it is you who is holding your self hostage with the fact that you have not accepted his forgiveness nor have you forgiven your self. pray about it then tell your man that you have not forgiven your self but you want to really do so then hand it to God. all you have to do is ask for forgivness and poof you have it. thats why we have Jesus he died for our sins.

[fidelsgirl]

I agree with rodeointx, you have to find some way to forgive yourself and then move on. If you are religeous, you could speak to your pastor, priest, rabbi, etc to see if they might be able to give you some suggestions on how to forgive and let go.

[jenntrav]

If I were you, I would just ask God for forgiveness. I am not sure what your religion is or if you are even religious but God WILL forgive you and give you what you need to forgive yourself and move on with your life. I wish you nothing but the best and keep us posted on how you are doing!!!

[rockys lil girl]

you know what you are right i havent forgave myself for doing that to him he has proven himself to me that he does love me and he tells me to forget and i cant in a way i see it as a good thing cause never would i even think about doing it again i would not put him through this again and i have asked god to forgive me and i know he has but i still think about what i have done his mom loves me very much and she gets sad when i dont go and see her and she has not talked to me in a bad way and has treated me with love and affection and it hurts cause i know i did wrong

[Hisoneandonly]

You have to forgive yourself.

[Titoswifey43v3r]

Hi....we live in the same city!!!!! how weird is that!
Ok back to the post.....you should really look into God and ask to be forgiven. It's really hard to walk further when you haven't taken a step to move forward. You have a guy that I call "one in a million"....treasure him and if he has shown you forgive/forgotten then hun you must do the same to live happy.
Best of luck....and God forgives each and everyone. It's on us to forgive ourselfs.

[noboundries]

Girl, i say just be thankful. You got a forgiving man....in 2006 I sent my husband annulment paper while he was in the hole! THAT WAS REALLY REALLY JACKED UP! He's forgiven me...it hurts me that i was sooo selfish at the time....

but you know what, i am thankful it happen. Things happen, we are human and some men understand and can show that TLC....thank goodness you got one.

I would send him a card of appreciation... i "just because i love you" card...

[rockys lil girl]

yeah im gonna send him a card hehehe hes a really good guy