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His #1 Fan · #1 01-15-2009, 11:29 PM

I am not sure how to deal with hole time I am so used ot hearing from him an dnow I wont. has anyone dealt with this?

superdreamATM · #2 01-16-2009, 08:29 AM

My husband went in the hole right after he got to CBCX. Cause some dingdong did something and went and blamed him for it and blah blah blah.. anyway he spent 5 days. He could not call me, but he was able to get another guy to call me and tell me what was going on and that he loves me. They stay locked up all day and no calls, it's hard, but EVERYONE SURVIVES!! just a small bump in the road! And believe me, my beloved has watched his back since then and not gotten in any trouble and has changed who he associates with!

supportingwife · #3 01-17-2009, 03:36 PM

My husband was in the hole at CBCX for 10 days. They allowed him to call me once nightly but that was it. This was about a month ago, I don't know if they have changed policy on that or not. But as of last month they were allowed 1 call a night. I hated it and it was alot of bull that sent him there, what killed me was the uncertainty of not knowing. It was the roughest 10 days we have ever gone through, but keep your head up this too shall pass.

Chantalley · #4 01-18-2009, 03:25 PM

How long does he have to be in there for? Just keep writing to him, I'm pretty sure they allow them to get mail. He'll need the love and support now more than ever. You'll get through it, one step, one day at a time...just like you do every day. Once this is all finished with, I'm sure it might even give you guys a new appreciation for one another!

Hang in there!