Are you guys ALWAYS together, holding hands during visitation?

[Luv0fHisLife]

We hold hands most of the visit. Unless he's got his arm around me.... He just uses his free hand to hold mine.... AWWWWW I MISS HIM....

[LadyChampion]

absolutely! We are always holding hands or touching each other! We try to stay as close to each other and touch each other as much as we can. The only time that we are apart is when either of us have to go to the restroom. We love each other so much! I do know what you mean though- it seems like alot of couples around us arent really that into each other or maybe they are, they just arent as touchy- feely as we are, to each his own i guess!

[light at end]

My husband and I are always by each other's side but we arn't always holding hands.

[tnm8]

Reading back through these just reminds me of the time I did spend with him when we dated before... I would always rest my head on his shoulder, he would hold my hand or put his arm around me... I know I'll hug him when I go see him though, probably hold his hand too. I can't wait!

[Warrior Wife]

LOL Sisters, I swear, Dana and I put the CONTACT in "Contact Visits"!!!!!

We gotta be careful, 'cause the rules are pretty strict in PA and the folks "in the sticks" of western PA are not too pleased with IRR...BUT that doesn't mean we keep our hands off each other

We hold hands the ENTIRE visit, and even sneak in a few kisses when we can...when we're got a CO in the VR who likes us, Dana willb stroke my face and hair...I tell you, it makes me PURR

I tell him my body "stores" the memory of every touch. When I come home, I can close my eyes and feel him.

Oh God, I miss that man of mine!!!!!

xo,

WW

[timsbaby41]

Yes we do and i'm thankful we can after reading some of the post were some of you ladies don't have that luxury.

[mybowe8]

I thought that it was just me and my bear. I usually visit him once a week and our visits are only for one hour. We are not allowed to get up and walk around unless using the rest room. So for our entire visits we sit there holding hand, rubbing each other face, kissing and talking about everything. It is very rear that we ever let go of each others hand.

[longtripalone]

yes we ALWAYS hold hands, everywhere we go. Sometimes without thinking i'll get up and throw something away just like that and i'll hear him call my name because he wants me to wait for him lol. After reading some of these posts i'm thankful that we do have cointact visits and i'm sorry for those who don't, my heart really goes out to you, it has to be very tough and i don't know if i could handle that.

[shadyslady]

Cute subject! I was just commenting on how I love that about my love. He is always right by my side. When I go to the restroom, he waits till he can see me at the top of the stairs so he can walk over to meet me and then walk me back to the table. Since the vending machines are out of bounds....if the line was long and we were apart too long, he would seriously get anxious and would calm back down when I was near him again. He makes me feel so wanted and needed. In my past relationship with an ex...he would always walk ahead of me and that annoyed me to no end!

[donutandpickle]

At the old place he was at we weren't allowed to hold hands and he wasn't allowed to get up inless he was using the bathroom so we couldn't. At the place he's at now we always get up together and hold hands. We still get anxious though like someone it bout to yell at us because that used to happen all the time at the old place. He said they got me institutionalized lol.

[thatwiz]

I'd have to say no on that one. Me and old boy have been together many years and yes, we touch, but for him, he gets mad frustrated.I'll touch his hair, his neck, his face etc, but having had so much sex, he just doesn't want to hold hands. He does hold my hand, but following me, no. he doesn't have to be with me physically every minute to KNOW he's with me.

[lilithinwaiting]

When my husband and I were together and I visited, Yes, we always held hands. He was in Min. during this last time and could walk around so we walked up together to get things to eat, drink.That is was I was there for to be with him and we paid no attention to any one else but us.

[ju's wife]

We are constantly together...like peanut butter and jelly... they just go together!! We are never apart!!!

[jessikida]

Our time together is so precious... we treasure every moment together!! I just wish the guards would lighten up a little. One guard started trippin on us just because we were sitting close together and holding hands. Other people in the room were sitting close too. I dont know why this guard decided to pick on us!! But I prayed for God to soften his heart and our next visit he left us alone.

[Temeron0926]

When we do get to visit, we only leave each other to go to the bathroom. Our visits are precious and we don't want to spend one minute apart. We actually try to use the bathroom at the same time so we can spend more time together!

[Johnsgrl3188]

so i wrote here 3 weeks ago LOL but its been 3 weeks and i been in Fl now and each weekend we are always holding hands, or touching The whole visit except when we use the bathroom, or something like that cant keep my hands off him

[ben's girl]

We are affectionate people. If we are just sitting there talking or outside walking around we hold hands. But we like to play cards and board games so while doing that we are concentrating on winning . We're very competitive against each other so no hand holding there unless I'm trying to distract him.

[YOUNGnGIFTED]

Interesting question. We ALWAYS hold hands and touch because for the past 2 1/2 years we couldn't touch while he was in County fighting his case. Oooh wee that was tough, especially for him not to be able to have that "human touch" for so long. I really thought that we were gonna get in trouble on our first contact visit..lol.. we kept kissing, peck here, hug there...it was nice.

As far as always being together during the visit..we are for the most part, but he doesn't get up with me when I go to the restroom since we normally sit just a few feet away from the door, but he does get up with me to go get food or warm it up and those are the best times. My guy is funny though...he loves for me to go and throw the trash away or walk behind me so that he can check me out.

[Cristianswifey]

He can't get up in our visits, so i bring his little sister and we make her go get everything for us so we don't have to be apart. (I take her to go get her nails done for helping us out so i am not taking advantage of her, but he says what do you think little sisters are for)

[eswife08]

Yes my baby and I hold hands all the time and we are ALWAYS together. He don't like to leave me when he goes to get our food because we only have 4 hours together. We are always being watched by the CO because my honey likes to grope..

[Quezsrib]

I just went to visit my honey at NCC on Saturday. We hold hands and kiss and talk and kiss and hold hands. We have played a UNO game once. It was actually fun but for the most part we just pick up where we left off in our letters. Saturday was the first time that a CO came over to us and said that we were being watched on the cameras and if it happens again our visit will be terminated. I was thinking if what happens again? I found out they don't like to see to much touching. I guess to them it's suspect because drugs is rampant on the compound. I miss my man that's all I worry about when I go visit. I do see other people just sitting around and talking. We are always staring at each other like we just met.

>PATIENTLY WAITING AND BUILDING A LIFE FOR US<

[mrs g]

I cant touch him after we sit down. sometimes we stand up at the sametime at the end of the visit. only a hug before the visits starts and when it ends other then that no touching

[his_forever]

People think Patrick and I are glued together during our visits! It's just that we get visits so rarely that it's hard not to hold hands or be touching in some way EVERY second of the visit. The last time I visited him (too long ago!) the couple we were friends with were like "Don't you know there are games and things to do? You guys must be SO bored!" Nope... not us... we once sat for almost an hour with our foreheads pressed together not saying but maybe one or two words every once in awhile.

[JPOO]

My man doesn't get to get up and walk around either. Unless he has to go to the bathroom. I am the one that goes to the vending machines and gets his trearts and drink. Which is cute, cause I get to bend over right in front of him. Hee, Hee!! We get to hug and kiss at the beginning and the end. And hold hands during our visit nothing else. I love it when he holds my hands....cause he rubs my thumb and than my pinky and the finger next to it. He's so sweet to me.

[MrsMoran916]

Okkk so Yay!! I can finally answer this!! hehe We had our first contact visit since he went away and we were holding hands the whole time awww I miss him so much! I cant wait to see him again this weekend!