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williams_wife07 · #**201** 12-30-2010, 06:23 AM

My hubbz proposed to me Christmas of 2008 (: my face lit up widd tears. He had brought the ring before he was incarcerated. Wow i miss him <\3

traci823 · #**202** 01-12-2011, 10:40 PM

I was just recently proposed to my MWI... He had it mailed to a PWGP group on facebook and proposed online.

gotta luv his creativeness....

wickedswife · #**203** 01-14-2011, 06:51 AM

Wow thats so sweet...we have been together almost 13 yrs off and on and everytime he goes in he wants for us to get married and i always tell him the same thing "if ur ass is going to be there more then a yr we will" well now hes looking at alot moree then a yr and in a letter all he said was "i guess i'm ready to get married" we r common law and all but i wish i would of said it with more feeling

Eagle12 · #**204** 01-14-2011, 12:36 PM

To the women who's been married for 12 years... and her husband's been incarcerated for almost 11 of them... I'm so sorry. That would just be unimaginable for me, how to do survive? Why do you stay with him?

JenZ · #**205** 01-18-2011, 10:35 AM

Joe put it in a letter. Unfortunately that is the only form of communication we have right now. He asked me to marry him over 20 years ago and I said yes, but we were separated by our families. He asked again on 11/11/10. He wrote his proposal in a Shakespearian type poem - it made my heart skip a beat and still makes me tear up when I read it!

Mrs.Boss13 · #**206** 01-18-2011, 11:14 AM

He asked me to marry him on my birthday, we were already together for 2 1/2 years and he was out I said yes but I wanted to wait a couple years so we would be financially ready. 2 years later we set the date and then bam this happened. Now I wish we hadn't waited. We're going on 6 years now and still plan to get married.

Jovah1040 · #**207** 01-18-2011, 11:28 AM

Proposed in Oct, married in Nov

Double Platinum · #**208** 02-16-2011, 11:27 AM

Yes David proposed to me 1/2/2011. We were at visit siting outside and he excused his self to the rest room so when he came back he said baby you ready to take our pictures so we went inside and took 2 pictures as always so as I get ready to walk back outside he grabs my hand and gets down on one knee (mind you that he waited til the visiting room got full) he knows Im very shy. So I start shaking and turning all red I could feel all the eyes on us and I didnt even take my eyes off him. As he was proposing the camera man was taking pictures of us it was so romantic my baby planned the whole thing he's such a sweetheart! I really cant remember everything he said but I know I heard will you marry me and I said yes!!

Willie'sQueen · #**209** 02-16-2011, 12:23 PM

My honey and I have been knowing each other our whole lives. We've always been in love with each other and he even got down on one knee one time before. {years before he was incarcerated}, but i said no. About 6 months ago he asked me to marry him and I said yes! He made sure that we got our rings, and we were approved last week to be married. So I guess now starts the waiting process!!!!!

MarGrits · #**210** 02-20-2011, 09:49 AM

He's being calling me Future Wifey…to everyone…since the day he found me again (we were friends in High School before he moved, we hadn't seen eachother in 7 years) So formal proposal, no. But are we getting married? Yes. we'll probably do justice of the peace as soon as he gets out and do a formal church wedding in a year or so. He was cute, told me we could get married in prison - he was very excited. But I know we'd both rather wait<3

carla510 · #**211** 02-22-2011, 02:47 PM

Yes he did n we was only together for like i think 5months n he was in the hole n now we are goint o be together for 10 months n getting married within 4months

Huero's_Wife · #**212** 02-22-2011, 02:50 PM

No he didn't. He proposed to me on Valentine's Day during a visit to him at an in-house drug rehab center. He got down on one knee and was shaking so hard he could barely put the ring on my finger. It was the cutest, most perfect proposal I could've asked for in a situation like that.

tanaturtle · #**213** 02-22-2011, 02:54 PM

Well my love is in Corcoran and he has wrote it in letters, asking me to marry him. Of course I said yes, but I also want him to get down on one knee. I'm still waiting to hear from visiting and its been a long time waiting to see him!

squeakyswife · #**214** 02-23-2011, 05:20 AM

He asked me in a bueatifull card and I told him yes.

Levi's wife · #**215** 02-23-2011, 09:08 AM

My boyfriend of a year proposed to me...i've never loved this hard before or never new how powerful love is until i met him....ive never been ready to marry anyone..in fact ive been proposed to 3 prior times before him....none of the other proposals felt right...this one....feels more than right...its perfect....only one catch.....not sure i can tell my parents about this one...my mom knows of him but from only what shes read on paper...and on paper he doesnt look very nice...i already know the parents will not approve....im not a 12 year old lil girl anymore.....so should i go thru with the marriage and tell the parents once he comes home?..or do we wait to marry when he comes home.....Please help out a very confused woman

i do know that i can't wait to be his wife!!!

brightallycat09 · #**216** 02-27-2011, 09:37 AM

well john and i dated when i was 16 and he was 19 he had just broken up with his girlfriend. come to find out she was pregnant she he did the right thing and went back to her. years later i find out he is in prison so i write him just to see how he was doing. we got along so easy writing it was like we picked up right where we left off.. we have almost been writing for a year now. i go to see him every month.well two months ago i was at visitation and he had this string from his uniform well he wrapped it around my finger and said" this might not be the shiniest ring or the biggest ..but all that doesn't matter ally cuz i love you and if i could i would marry you today. but soon ally real soon lets get married" i said yes and that is how it went

Mrs.NewYork · #**217** 02-27-2011, 07:05 PM

numerous times! and numerous times i said yes!!! always chickened out till now and were really really doin it and coupldnt be happier!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MIKAER · #**218** 02-28-2011, 08:58 PM

I was really sick, and on my way to the hospital for emergency surgery, when he called to tell me he loved me. It was the 1st time he told me that... then he wrote to his family and began to plan our wedding, now he plans the rest of our lives...We are getting married in his mother's church, in a little over a year. I move to his parole out town with his family, really soon. We went from best friends to engaged. I was never his girl friend, just the woman who loved him...

bl6ckr0s3 · #**219** 03-22-2011, 02:56 PM

Neither me or my man proposed to each other. We met each other wen we were 12. We liked each other but never got to talk cuz he was too shy. We went our different ways during high skoo even tho I was suppose to originally go to his high skoo. B4 senior year, i got a hold of his # from a friend who's sister was good friends w/ his sister, & i asked him if he wanted to go out. He felt embarrassed & didn't think he was good enuff to go out w/ me cuz he didn't have $$$ or car. I offered to be the 1 to drive him & take him out to eat if he didn't mind, but he said he would never want a woman to do that. So I called him a couple of more times cuz I wanted to talk to him. That's wen I found out from my friends that he went to prison.

Over & over again, I have searched 4 him hoping to find his whereabouts, clueless of where to start. 14 yrs went by & he popped into my life. Over the 1st month we spoke to each other, we started growing close. After all these years, he was shocked that I have thought about him & have cared 4 him knowing that he was in prison. All wat mattered to me was that he was alive & ok, I didn't care wat he did to b in prison. Everything felt so right w/ this man. We both exceeded each other's expectations of the person we were lookin 4 in a relationship. He 1 day just asked me how do i feel about marriage? I told him, "If I can't marry u, then I don't marry @ all". Shocked he was....that he felt so surprised & flattered, @ the same time happy that there was something so special about him 4 me to feel that he was only worthy of marrying, no other man in my life was worth marrying. So that's wen we agreed to be married, we both never gotten married b4, we both felt that it's the right time 4 us, & we both know that God has brought us back 2gether 4 a reason. He said that I was born to be his....Awaiting to be approved right now.

Congrads to all!

Soulyrical · #**220** 04-10-2011, 10:09 PM

Yes, he proposed & he is still incarcerated. He told me tonight he is going to talk to the Chaplin tomorrow to find out what we need to do. We haven't decided when or anything, but we will be married.

<3

LeoLove · #**221** 04-11-2011, 09:27 PM

Hi, yes, I agree with you. I married my ex-husband in prision...see, ex husband. Although he proposed on the outside and got remanded we should have waited. I think men as we love them, ask to be married with some selfishness. I figure if you love me that much you can wait. I am not judging cuz I did it and I didn't wanna hear any negativity. But, I don't know if I'd do it again, and now with my Boo. He's asked , He's gotten divorced while in there, and now wants us to. (he was my first fiance over 20 years ago) I know it sounds like a crazy story but it is what it is and I don't like, or have anything to hide. That's who I shouldve married. (yes, I do have some regrets) one of lifes lessons. So, he's due home soon and wants to get married....but what if they don't CR him, and then I have to wait till 2017. Can I ? Will I want to? Idk, but I know I love him and he takes care of me and my boys from in there and he's just as amazing now, as he's always been. So, I say all this to say. I cannot get confused by his love, or the thought of every other month, getting a Trailor, and being alone and lonely and married. I did it before for a year till my ex came home and God it wasn't easy( and we didn't have trailors) . I wish who ever does this the Best. And If I do, me too.

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Originally Posted by IAmForeverHis

No. We've talked about this. We're waiting until he gets out. He wants to do it right, give me the romance of a perfect proposal and wedding. He wants all the happy memories associated with it, not just some prison wedding. And I totally agree. Not to sound condescending to those who have gotten married while their man is incarcerated, it's just not for us. If that's what you want, then go for it! It's really very sweet.

tylersmom75 · #**222** 04-11-2011, 10:20 PM

he asked me years ago in a letter and i said yes. couple years ago he was planning to try to get married when he was behind bars and at that time i ran to texas due to fear. i was scared to wake up with noone next to me in bed at that time. i think if we would get married now i would be able to wait and count down til he came home. but now he said he wants to wait until he gets out either later this year or when he paroles out in june 2013.

Arminta · #**223** 04-11-2011, 10:27 PM

Hello Kim my name is Julie and I have known my man for 10 years the first 6 years I couldn't stand him even tho he never stopped trying to get me to go out with him.in 2007 he was doing state time and we become pen pals he was released in 2008 and 2 weeks later we were living together.No one could of made me believe that he would turn out being the most important thing in my life today now that he's back behind bars now doing Federal time he's asked me to marry him.I so want to but don't know the laws there in Texas. Loved your story and good luck to the both of you!!!
~D@vid's @ngel~

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Originally Posted by KimLovesJason

I was just curious!
Jason proposed to me the last time he was in & i told him i think we should wait (which ended up being a good idea).

Now this time, on the back of the last page of EVERY letter i get, he writes really big:

KIM PLEASE MARRY ME!!

i think its really sweet & makes me smile every time!

so did/has your man proposed while he is/was in and how did he do it?

thanks!

Mel.s · #**224** 09-15-2011, 12:36 AM

This is a funny thread...the love of my life and pain in my butt lol has asked me to marry him each time he has been locked up. In the last 16 years he has been in jail 3 times twice for 8 month once for 4 month and now he is in prison for 1 year and 8 month. Each time he would write me and tell me that I was the most perfect woman ever and that he would marry me once he was home. there is still no ring on my finger lol let see what happens when he gets out in 378 days lol

Longwait13 · #**225** 09-17-2011, 06:57 PM

Nah he didn't propose to me while he is incarcerated. I propesed to HIM and he said yes!! That was several months ago. He told me I had to make a choice as to if I was going to do this ride with him or give up. I chose to do the ride full-time. Even though I meant the proposal I didn't expect him to embrace it as fully as he has. He mentions it in every letter and talks about making me his wife while we are talking on the phone. He has told his Mom. I tell anyone who will listen. I love this man beyond reason. He has showed me so much change since we have been together. He wants to get out and be a good husband to me and a good father to his son from a previous relationship. Can't wait for our happiness to begin. My man promises to love me like I deserve to be loved when he gets home. CAN'T WAIT!!