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View Poll Results: Who Are The Most Critical of Your Relationship
You 16 14.95%
Your Family 53 49.53%
His Family 3 2.80%
Friends 20 18.69%
All of the Above 15 14.02%
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Old 04-27-2009, 07:50 PM
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I didn't vote, because to put "my family" just wouldn't be fair. It's about 1/2 and 1/2. There are many members of my family who are supportive of us. I am very appreciative of them. Then there are others, who do not give me a hard time, yet they seem to prefer just not to talk about it. I know they are not happy about it or understanding of it, and I think they hope that by ignoring it it will go away.

Other than that, I find no one actually ever gives me a hard time about it. I think it might have something to do with the fact that I feel so confident in my choice and our love for each other that there just really isn't any room for criticism.
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Old 04-27-2009, 07:56 PM
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I didn't, vote because no one is critical of our relationship. I am so protective over my husband as he's the same way towards me. We both made it clear from the start to our family's that regardless of any situations, we're married and we're our own family now so if you got something to say that's disrespectful we're going to take that personal and tell you to kick rocks - we're a package deal and you got to learn to live with it. And from that our families, friends, etc. have all accepted that and respected our relationship.
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I chose all of the above because its a little of everybody my family doesn't say much some of my friends make comments and his family some have stuff to say at times too but idk care i've been here 5 years and i think thats what makes them talk so much because they didn't think i was gonna last 1 moreless 5 but its all good with me i can careless
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I chose all of the above. Everybody seems to have an opinion and they make their comments. But they just do not get that I could care less what they have to say. Its my life and I will live it with who I want and how I want.
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Honestly, I am. Everyone else are so supportive of our relationship. I've been waiting almost 9 years and have 3 more to go, so I constantly ask myself 'can I wait another 3 years?'. I love my husband dearly so at the end of the day that pulls me through. I aint going no where.
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Old 04-28-2009, 11:51 AM
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I'd have to say my step-mother. My dad is leaning towards the supportive side. He wants me to go back to school and get a good job so when Bobby comes home, I can help him and we can move on TOGETHER. But my step-mom tells EVERYONE who comes over (like it's their business), "I think she should reconsider her significant other and just rely on him for child support" and "I don't think she can handle this. I don't think she can wait for him." I've told her numerous times her opinion doesn't mean sh!t to me and she should just stop. I lost my mom when I was 15. If I could handle that, I can handle this.
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mine wrote my parents who also wrote back. we have their blessing as they said theyve never seen me as happy in my adult life, my kids are great and most have talked to him on regular basis on the phone. my best friend, is no longer. she started off ok, then decided id lost the plot, that i could cope with ...just dont mention us to her.. when she saw a pic she got racist.....i havent spoken to her since. i have a mixed race granddaughter...you just dont go there with me on that score and she overstepped the mark. the laughable thing really is that hes caucasian but she seen the pics with the sun tan hahaha.
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My family. They wanted me to leave him right from the start. I couldn't. Not til I knew what made a man who lived a perfect life and never get into trouble do something wrong. He had a mental collapse. I understand what happened. Most of my family is not there to help me with our 3 boys. I told them to never call me when they find themselves ni a position to need help and need support.
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