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View Poll Results: What would happen if your man showed off the "sexy pics" you sent for him
I would get angry 314 47.94%
I don't care 75 11.45%
It's flattering that my man loves my body enough to show them off 235 35.88%
((other)) 67 10.23%
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Old 07-03-2012, 10:14 AM
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It would kinda be a mixture of emotions. I know he never, EVER would because he's very possessive in that way (And it's the only way! Nothing to worry about, he just doesn't want other men seeing me nekked or half nekked.). I'd be mad because I don't like my body, so just sending him the pictures I did (For his birthday on the first. He hasn't received them, yet. Kinda nervous.) was pretty huge to me, and it's scary. BUT...at the same time, I'd be thinking "Dayum, he's that proud of my body?!"
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Old 07-03-2012, 03:53 PM
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My man loves my pictures, and I know he is very careful with them. I would not like if he shows them around, but I know won't do this. Perhaps his celli saw the one or the other but not because my man shows him this.
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Old 07-03-2012, 04:28 PM
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It wouldn't bother me at all.....part of my job is to be sexy for him. I pick on him cause when I send pics I tell him he be eating extra chips at mail call LOL we kid about it.....but idk if he shows them or not. I did notice last visit that the CO said " u here to see D..... right? How did he know that unless he seen pics idk

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Old 07-03-2012, 05:27 PM
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HELL NO! He does not show anyone the kids or the sexy pics! He shows me off in the normal pics I send. He would not let anyone look at the sexy pics. I didnt take them to have them as a show to whatever inmate. He talks about me a lot but he doesnt even tell anyone my first name! We are very private like that. They have a nickname for me in there and thats what they call me. My babe didnt make up the nick name either.
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Old 07-03-2012, 07:40 PM
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I have no idea if he does or doesn't.
Part of me says probably because he wants to show off whats 'his.'
Another part of me says hell no because he's a little possessive and jealous.
I don't care either way.. My pics are sexy.. but not THAT bad.
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Old 07-04-2012, 02:17 PM
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No, he wouldn't, tho. Too jealous!

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Old 07-04-2012, 02:22 PM
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I would beat his a**. I know he would never cause he has so much respect for me as his wife. And he gets mad when the CO do search and look through his albums so I know he would never show them off.
My husband is the same way.

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Old 07-04-2012, 02:24 PM
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I know for a fact he doesn't. Just yesterday he told me he won't even put my pictures on the outside of his locker. He said he knows somebody might come in his room and comment on my picture in the wrong way and he he would flip out and it wouldn't be good.
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Old 07-04-2012, 02:37 PM
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No not at all. Just like im proud of having a sexy man & I tend to show him off a lot especially in our visits lol he's proud of having me(: showing me off is nothing bad is just another way of showing that he is proud of having a beautiful girl!
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shit I wish my man would show me off! haha, but he's too jealous. he doesn't want anyone else looking at me. i just think it would make him happier to get some positive reenforcement about what he DOES have in his life.
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Old 07-04-2012, 09:48 PM
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He wouldn't dare. Can't stand for no one to look now With clothes on. I will feel disrespected anyway.

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Old 07-04-2012, 09:55 PM
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Ugh yes because he said for his eyes only!!
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He wouldn't show off my sexy pics. He won't even show off my regular pics. It is not in a man's best interest to flaunt what he has and have others envying him. He says he has seen too many times where other inmates try to get a woman to write to them instead, and this happens to the ones who flaunt their women. He even tears out my return address from each envelope and flushes it down the commode.
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Old 07-04-2012, 11:37 PM
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Um. Yeah, I'd be pretty pissed off. I know he wouldn't do that, just because he doesn't like anyone else thinking of me that way. I just think that's disrespectful to show them off to strangers, even if they aren't strangers to him.
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Old 07-05-2012, 04:38 AM
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Honestly I dont know and I dont really care. He isnt allowed full nudes not even able to see a nipple so nobody is seeing anything they wouldnt see if we were on the beach.
I am going to ask if he shows me around hehe.
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Thankfully i will never have to worry about him showing my sexy pics off. I can't even tell you how many times he gets angry or jealous when the other inmates voice their opinions of me just from my normal pics. He has gotten to the point that he won't let anyone see any of my pics except the funny ones. To brighten his mood i'll make funny faces or do a silly pose... i.e hair staches finger staches me and my sister picking each others noses making fishy faces. For some reason he don't mind showing off those ones he says his buddies always look forward to him getting a letter or card with the silly pictures cause it never fails they all get a good laugh out of them.

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This post made me laugh my babe and I were talking about people's pictures hanging up and he said all the guys show off their pictures! Not to mention AALLLLLLL the people in the mail room inspecting your pictures. So his eyes only pictures that's funny when he's home that may be true but not in prison!
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If I send my husband pictures like that, I KNOW where they are going...they're going to a prison. Whether you like it or not, someone else besides your husband HAS seen those photos. I mean, its someones job to actually look for nip slips and what not before they even get to your husband or boyfriend so they've been seen whether you like it or not. If you don't want your body displayed, don't send pictures. End of story.
Personally, I have sent "sexy" pictures to my husband and I knew damn well that they were gonna go up on his locker or bunk and that it would be very likely that others may see them. My husband and I are very open though. He told me that a few guys asked who that "chick" was in the photos and when he told them it was his wife, they were very respectful about it. Im comfortable and secure with myself...besides, Im never gonna see those guys in person anyway, so what does it matter?
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I dont care because I know he wouldnt. He shows them the ones of just my face, because he thinks Im beautiufl & considers himself lucky that Im his girl, but sexy pictures are just for him (;
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Old 07-06-2012, 08:56 AM
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IDk if he will show them off i have not sent any yet but i will be sending my fist set this week so we shal see. and i know he will tell me if he shows anyone.
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My husband is very protective over me so I kno that is one thing he will not do.
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He would never. He wouldn't even let me send the "risky" ones I wanted to send because he says some guys break the locks on the lockers and steal pics like that and use them to masturbate to.
:eek!: :Gross:! He said just not to send them because if someone stole them he would be in deep shit for beating the hell out of the Guy. So I sent him pics of me in club dresses, heels, etc...nothing too revealing.

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Old 07-08-2012, 02:15 PM
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No, it doesn't make me mad. I mean, all he has are pictures and the other guys want to see, because a lot of them, sadly, are not getting letters and pictures. They aren't disgusting about it, trying to take the pictures to the shower or anything, but they definitely tell him they think I am sexy as hell. And I know he has to like the fact that they know I am so crazy about him. Plus, if it helps him make friends and stay out of trouble, I would do anything to keep him happy. =)

But, my comfort level with my body is high. I have been a go-go dancer, and have modeled lingerie before, so the idea of a bunch of strangers looking at my body is not new. May feel different if that wasn't the case haha.
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I told him as long as they're not from our city we live in.. he said Nah, that's not cool he wouldn't do it. But not like we'll ever know
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