moving to your husbands country

[carmen6505]

I want to move to Jamaica one year after my husband has been deported which will be in one month. I tried to tell my friends and family and i get nothing but negative things said to me like how stupid i would be to do that. We have been married for 8 years and have two kids 11 and 7. Has anyone else gone threw this and how do you not listen to what they think is right for you. its driving me crazy how everyone says to just get a divorce and start a new life that he did this to himself?

[cwgirlup]

I would move and not worry about what friends and family says. He is your husband and y'all have kids together. Good Luck. Your friends and family will either get over it would under it. LOL!!! You need to do what's right for YOUR family( your husband and kids).

[I'm_his_flaca21]

Originally Posted by carmen6505

i want to move to jamaica one year after my husband has been deported which will be in one month. I tried to tell my friends and family and i get nothing but negative things said to me like how stupid i would be to do that. We have been married for 8 years and have two kids 11 and 7. Has anyone else gone threw this and how do you not listen to what they think is right for you. Its driving me crazy how everyone says to just get a divorce and start a new life that he did this to himself?

if i was you i will continue my plans and move to jamaica if youve been there for him for eight years and you love him, i say go for it because if you start a new life you will never be happy thinking what wouldve happened if you stayed with the man you really loved

[marcos'wife]

after all the time being together and waiting for him,u all deserve to b a family no matter what others think.u do whats right for u and yours.it will hard the kids to move but they too will know it was the right thing to do and will b happy to b a family.good luck

[zunigan]

Hes your husband and father of your kids. I guess he did do this, they all do but no matter if you love him go for it. You can be here alone or with him in his country. You can always return here if you don't make it there. He can't. Good luck the road ahead is a long one but if you love him and he loves you he can make it much easier for you.

[LOVINGBREED]

Originally Posted by carmen6505

I want to move to Jamaica one year after my husband has been deported which will be in one month. I tried to tell my friends and family and i get nothing but negative things said to me like how stupid i would be to do that. We have been married for 8 years and have two kids 11 and 7. Has anyone else gone threw this and how do you not listen to what they think is right for you. its driving me crazy how everyone says to just get a divorce and start a new life that he did this to himself?

all can say is fallow your heart , you do what its best for you and your kids, friends , family , etc.. will always talk , thats my advice, my husband will be deported to canada, after his realease date ill be meeting him up there to start a new life good luck

[luis84]

Go. Life is short.

I am 25 and made the decision. I live in El salvador for almost a year now. Is it as nice as the USA, no? What do I miss the most, chinese food. Am I considering moving back, no.

Love is way too damn hard to find and even so, I am not going to let the government destroy something so special.

There is hope elsewhere, you can do fine in Jamaica. It might be hard but your fighting for something important.

I've learned to love El Salvador, it is beautiful in its own way. I love the USA as well and miss a lot but I am here for love and that trumps everything.

I miss all my family, friends, my fun job and my home.

I still don't want to go back.

Carmen, follow your heart. How have you felt without him? Do you want to feel that way the rest of your life, knowing it hurts him just as much? Its not worth it to protect the life you have; just go. Buy a plane ticket and go. Have faith, carry your love and be strong, it will work out. Sometimes in life you just have to go, and hope it does work out, because moving abroad doesn't get any easier no matter how much you plan.

[jahlove]

I agree with all the wonderful women on here - follow your heart. I'm headed for Jamaica in September. Thankfully, I have a really supportive family. I am an educated professional that makes damn good money, but I know, and my family knows, that is not what makes a person happy. I have been waiting for my guy for almost 7 years.

Have you been to Jamaica before? It's not without its problems, but it is really not that bad at all. It's beautiful, there is not a language barrier and it's actually easier to own your own business than get a job working for someone else.

Let me know your decision - maybe we can meet up in JA!