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Old 05-22-2010, 02:50 AM
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I'm so sad. i lost my husban on 5-4-10 and by brother on 4-20-09 both where in pvsp. people should not be treated the way my loved ones where treated. i should of not been treated how i was treated. i miss them and all i can do is cry. I just want every one to make sure they have a roi for there loved one because if something go wrong you will need it. please keep me and mine in prayer and i pray your love ones make it home. take the time to visit and enjoy them why they are here. i visited every sat and sun and now i miss going so much. i wish i could just have one more vistit. one last kiss and hug. i cry too much
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Oh sweetie I will pray very hard for you to find strenghth through this awful time! Just know this isn't goodbye but good night because you will see them again. If you need to talk please pm me sometimes it helps to put things into words. God Bless you and keep you.
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Jasmine, I am so sorry to hear of your lost love ones. It's hard to understand why we have to go through these things. Why the system is like it is. Making no since at all. But try to remember all the happy times you had with them. They arn't feeling any pain anymore and they wouldn't want you to either. Remember God Loves you and in him you can find relief from your heartache. I am praying for peace and comfort for you.








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I'm so sad. i lost my husban on 5-4-10 and by brother on 4-20-09 both where in pvsp. people should not be treated the way my loved ones where treated. i should of not been treated how i was treated. i miss them and all i can do is cry. I just want every one to make sure they have a roi for there loved one because if something go wrong you will need it. please keep me and mine in prayer and i pray your love ones make it home. take the time to visit and enjoy them why they are here. i visited every sat and sun and now i miss going so much. i wish i could just have one more vistit. one last kiss and hug. i cry too much
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I know its hard, believe me I do. But pray and pray non-stop, God knows you are hurting, just ask him to ease the pain, and he will.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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Im so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers....
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My husband died May 26th 2009 in a Texas prison... Im still crying ... have cried every day for a year now... I really thought in my heart he would come home. I know everyone has good intentions and prayer is power . I can feel it when people pray for me. This pain is like no other Iv ever had .... We have a bond and I know how you feel .... God give Peace to us both.
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I know its hard, believe me I do. But pray and pray non-stop, God knows you are hurting, just ask him to ease the pain, and he will.
i try but it is so painful i dont think anyone can understand my pain i cry
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Old 05-24-2010, 06:55 PM
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My husband died May 26th 2009 in a Texas prison... Im still crying ... have cried every day for a year now... I really thought in my heart he would come home. I know everyone has good intentions and prayer is power . I can feel it when people pray for me. This pain is like no other Iv ever had .... We have a bond and I know how you feel .... God give Peace to us both.
sorry for ur loss and i'm just not saying it i know the pain and the hurt and i pray for u. i miss magoo
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I'm so sad. i lost my husban on 5-4-10 and by brother on 4-20-09 both where in pvsp. people should not be treated the way my loved ones where treated. i should of not been treated how i was treated. i miss them and all i can do is cry. I just want every one to make sure they have a roi for there loved one because if something go wrong you will need it. please keep me and mine in prayer and i pray your love ones make it home. take the time to visit and enjoy them why they are here. i visited every sat and sun and now i miss going so much. i wish i could just have one more vistit. one last kiss and hug. i cry too much
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I would like to express my sincere condolences on the recent passing of your husband and brother. I know what a difficult loss this is for you. Your in my prayers..
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Try to seek comfort in the happiest memories you shared.
thats a hard thing to do. i cry i cant seem to get up toooo much pain he was my life. my brother gave me to him when he passed away told him to take care of me and now i have noone i cry
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Old 05-27-2010, 11:00 PM
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i miss my husban so much how does anyone get though this
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I am very sorry for your lost.

please know that crying is the best you can do for yourself now. it is good you allow yourself to cry, so your feelings can flow. the situation cannot be changed, but it would be much worse you would hold all this back inside you.

take your time and your own rhythm. and I hope you have somebody to talk. share about all the good things of your loved ones and also about the injusties.... all this helps a lot.
we have a saying in German, which says the time heals wounds. it means we cannot heal a wound right now in this moment, it does not work with a cut in your finger, it either works with a cut in our soul! all needs time and care and patience!

and yes, I understand very well what you mean when you say you wished you would have had this one more visit!

if you need to talk.... you can always pm....
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I am so sorry for your loss. My husband is at PVSP right now and he is up to be transferred. I pray that God will comfort you and ease your pain.
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I am so sorry for your loss. My husband is at PVSP right now and he is up to be transferred. I pray that God will comfort you and ease your pain.
remember to get a roi signed!! hope he get out of there soon and thank you taking the time to write me lov jas
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I'm so sorry for your loss, sweetie. You have my condolences and prayers that you will find peace and be able to take comfort in happy memories of both your husband and your brother.

You might benefit from joining a grief counseling group in your area. Others there going through the same thing can help and be of support and comfort to you.

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I am so sorry to hear about your loss! I hope with time you can find ways to heal your pain. You will be remembered in my prayers.
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I am really sorry you lost your love ones just know you have alot of people praying for you. I know its easier said than done but just try to think about all the wonderful times you had with them... You and your family are in my prayers.
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