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retired - 666 · #26 06-02-2010, 05:30 PM

There are some that understand it. Keep breathing...just keep breathing.

jasmine 439 · #27 06-02-2010, 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by negretelove

((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))
(((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))
and more
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i am so sorry for your loss and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

hey its a pvsp girl. ty for hugs

negretelove · #28 06-03-2010, 12:00 AM

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hey its a pvsp girl. ty for hugs

Yes it is a PV girl! Sweetie whatever you need please let me know....PM me or get my number from Teresa

I wish that I could lift the pain off of you. The only advice that I can give you is allow yourself to go through the grieving process. All of the feelings you are going through are a natural part of healing.

I wish I would have allowed myself to grieve after the passing of a loved one but I didn't and it has affected me in devastating ways. Please open up and talk about it...we are here for you.

Pretty Toes · #29 06-03-2010, 08:33 AM

I am soo sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

jasmine 439 · #30 06-03-2010, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by negretelove

Yes it is a PV girl! Sweetie whatever you need please let me know....PM me or get my number from Teresa

I wish that I could lift the pain off of you. The only advice that I can give you is allow yourself to go through the grieving process. All of the feelings you are going through are a natural part of healing.

I wish I would have allowed myself to grieve after the passing of a loved one but I didn't and it has affected me in devastating ways. Please open up and talk about it...we are here for you.

ty and do i know you from the visiting line ?

iloveyoumore · #31 06-03-2010, 09:08 AM

Jasmine, I join with the others in lifting you up in your grief.

negretelove · #32 06-03-2010, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by jasmine 439

ty and do i know you from the visiting line ?

I am sure we have spoke in the past. I will ask Teresa she will know

We have been at PV for about 5 yrs so I am aquainted with most of the regulars.

jasmine 439 · #33 06-03-2010, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by negretelove

I am sure we have spoke in the past. I will ask Teresa she will know

We have been at PV for about 5 yrs so I am aquainted with most of the regulars.

i went alot. i went both sat and sun most weekends so i sure we talked . i would go early to get in faster and besided that i talk alot

Kay · #34 06-03-2010, 03:46 PM

I am so very sorry for your losses. I can't even start to imagine. I pray God will give you the strength you need. God Bless

light at end · #35 06-04-2010, 08:17 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to understand how hard it must be to loose not 1 but 2 family members and having to loose them so close to each other. My heart goes out to you and your family. May they RIP. They are your guardian angels now. Always with you where ever you go.

toodletruck · #36 06-08-2010, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by jasmine 439

I'm so sad. i lost my husban on 5-4-10 and by brother on 4-20-09 both where in pvsp. people should not be treated the way my loved ones where treated. i should of not been treated how i was treated. i miss them and all i can do is cry. I just want every one to make sure they have a roi for there loved one because if something go wrong you will need it. please keep me and mine in prayer and i pray your love ones make it home. take the time to visit and enjoy them why they are here. i visited every sat and sun and now i miss going so much. i wish i could just have one more vistit. one last kiss and hug. i cry too much

sory jasmine! my computer shut down. old and finicky. i'll check back on chat for you

Tara · #37 06-08-2010, 09:27 PM

Oh yes we do have a release of information, also I have power of attorney signed while he was in county. You are welcome and you are not alone.

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remember to get a roi signed!! hope he get out of there soon and thank you taking the time to write me lov jas

negretelove · #38 06-08-2010, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by jasmine 439

i went alot. i went both sat and sun most weekends so i sure we talked . i would go early to get in faster and besided that i talk alot

i am usually an early bird and if i saw familiar faces i would talk.
you have been in my prayers and will continue to be. remember our loved ones never really leave us they are just waiting to be reunited...until then they will watch over you every moment of every day.

Green Eyed Lady · #39 06-08-2010, 11:22 PM

Jasmine I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your loved ones in my prayers. God bless and stay strong.

jasmine 439 · #40 06-09-2010, 12:20 AM

i'm having a really bad day i been cring too much iwant him so bad i miss him it hurts he was supossed to come home sunday. this is just wrong i cry

Shush · #41 06-10-2010, 07:23 AM

there are these special dates they have a meaning, Birthdays, Christmas, and like in your case the day he should have been home..... they are harder to handle as all others.

no wonder you feel the way you feel!

jasmine 439 · #42 06-11-2010, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Shush

there are these special dates they have a meaning, Birthdays, Christmas, and like in your case the day he should have been home..... they are harder to handle as all others.

no wonder you feel the way you feel!

so true, i cry

davisusa97 · #43 06-11-2010, 11:20 PM

Jasmine, with each tear and each day your pain will ease. Everything is fresh and raw right now and I know you think it won't get any better but it does. Just find the strength to rise each morning to greet a new day. Remember that in all things GOD has a plan. I am not sure how religious you are but I have copied a prayer for you to read when you need comfort. I lost a family member this afternoon as well so I feel your pain. I pray for you in your time of loss.
Footprints in the Sand

One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,
other times there was one only.
This bothered me because I noticed that during the low periods of my life,
when I was suffering from anguish,
sorrow or defeat,
I could see only one set of footprints,
so I said to the Lord,
“You promised me Lord,
that if I followed you,
you would walk with me always.
But I have noticed that during the most trying periods of my life
there has only been one set of footprints in the sand.
Why, when I needed you most, have you not been there for me?”
The Lord replied,
“The years when you have seen only one set of footprints,
my child, is when I carried you.”

jasmine 439 · #44 06-13-2010, 08:20 PM

today my jorge was suppose to come home. i cry and i just want him home but i know i'm just dreaming i miss him lov jas

negretelove · #45 06-13-2010, 08:44 PM

many many many prayers, thoughts and (((((((((hugs))))))))))

Twennyhull6972 · #46 06-13-2010, 09:17 PM

All that is on my mind is my husband. He got put in prison for wrong reasons he got out of prison in 08 he recieved an 8 year sentence and served all 8 years and now he has a 9 year sentence for family violence and i dont know how to get him home i cannot find any legal help. I am so upset and hurt about all this

lesterswife · #47 06-15-2010, 08:24 AM

Im so sorry for your loss.. I will keep you in my prayers... But you also have to be stong and knbow that God dont put anything on us that we cant handle.. Keep your head up.. You will see the light at the end.

loveeric01 · #48 06-15-2010, 08:28 AM

I am so sorry for your loss and I will pray for you an your family.

Many Blessings

jasmine 439 · #49 06-18-2010, 08:34 AM

i'm so mad!!!!! first they kill my husban then they wont let me see him when he is dieing and then they don't even send all this stuff back i know there is alot missing from those boxes they sent and more importanly some of the most sentamental stuff is gone like the gray thurmal wich was the last thing i seen him in. people should not be able to treat people like this. i cry

Shush · #50 06-19-2010, 05:27 AM

you are right, but unfortunate the staff may not be responsible for this this time. experiences shows, often when a guy get transfered to the hole, he is losing a lot of his stuff as this gets stolen. it never reaches the storage: all depends on the other inmates in this siuation: the cellie and also the one who is the trier tender. most make good profit from what can be sold on the yard.
this is one side of the story.

the other side is really sad; not to be able to see your husband, to touch him a last time, it is making it harder for you in your way of mourning. but please, even it might not help much, let me tell you, a person who is dead changes in the hours after the dead. the person is the one he/she was only for about two hours... not even. then the looking changes a lot and I recommend most families to come or immediate or not to go to see the person anymore.

you have the picture of your husband in your memory and heart.... it would not be all easy either to have replaced it by what you might have gotten to see. the anger and pain you feel is your own, even you project them on all kind of facts now. anger is one step of the mourning process.... dont allow it you stuck in this, please. cry, scream for how you feel, this is all ok. you can scream without a sound comes out of your mouth, believe me i know. allow yourself to feel this way, to do this. as it will be a bit easier ..... and get a hug!!!!!! take your time.... as it does hurt so very much!!!!!