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Old 07-08-2010, 12:01 PM
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I have been waiting on My love life to take a shift, I am a good woman with morales and goals and dreams and ministry! I know waiting on love ones locked up gets hard, but I have come to a point that I feel its the best time for us to get our selves together, I really think its a time where we will get our house and our heart together.. I love my ex husband and miss him dearly.. I am learning that true love has to wait, but my question is when you wait and get yourself together, will the ones that are locked up, really stick to there words? It makes you wonder if true love exists, which I know it does, but it comes with so much pain..Time up I am switching gears... Is the love worth waiting for...
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Old 07-08-2010, 12:08 PM
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I have been waiting on My love life to take a shift, I am a good woman with morales and goals and dreams and ministry! I know waiting on love ones locked up gets hard, but I have come to a point that I feel its the best time for us to get our selves together, I really think its a time where we will get our house and our heart together.. I love my ex husband and miss him dearly.. I am learning that true love has to wait, but my question is when you wait and get yourself together, will the ones that are locked up, really stick to there words? It makes you wonder if true love exists, which I know it does, but it comes with so much pain..Time up I am switching gears... Is the love worth waiting for...
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Hey girl I feel yah,
I was there a few years back. I finally figured out that I just needed to let go and let God dowhat he needs to do. I went my way and my husband at the time, with all the good intentions etc, slipped right back into old habits. Funny thing was once I let it go, my first love reentered my life. He is my heart, we were just very young when we first got together. It did not take long to realise that God had greater things in store for me, and put me though some things to teach me how to be the strong woman I am today. It was hard to see past the hurt, but when I finally just let God have his way he rewarded my heart. Now I understand what true happiness and peace are. My only regret was holding onto something I thought was Gods plan, yet every event showed me it wasn't.
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Old 07-08-2010, 01:24 PM
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In your case when it comes to wanting know if an abuser has changed, all it takes is one good fight on the outside to find out.
Its always rosey when they are locked up and caint strike out.
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Old 07-08-2010, 01:45 PM
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Waiting is never easy, I waited 6 years out of 8 for my husband just to find out that he never even appreciated it. To him, I was just living life, no sacrifices or anything when in reality I moved across the country just to be near him.
I know my husband changed, but not for the better in the long run. We have been separated for 2 years now and I am filing the divorce papers next month.
For some though, they are one anothers everything already and they may face issues but ultimately stay together. Every relationship is different and what goes on between two people can only be between those two people in the long run.
The awesome thing is ... God does work in our lives and I always knew that my marriage to my Mr was not in His plan for me. I am being blessed with the knowledge that God does have someone just for me and I look forward to the day when we can be together.
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True love doesn't hit. True love doesn't abuse.

You ask if true love is worth the wait. I will answer with a question...Is it really true love?
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Old 07-08-2010, 04:36 PM
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if its true love that you both feel for each other then YES, it is worth waiting for. if its a one way street, then NO, it is not worth waiting for,
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will loved ones locked up really stick to their words? honey if its true love they feel, then yes they will really stick to their word. is it worth waiting for? absolutely, if theres is real love. do what ur heart tells you, this is a long ride, but love is that way, whether the person is in prison or not, its all about love, trust and the time and dedication u put into it. good luck
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