Steamy letters

[Hugaboom]

I can't send them and I've even had one taken with a response from a mail facility stating that it was against their guidelines and that I should refrain from sending anything similar again.

It definitely depends upon the facility and the state. Check with yours.

[naylovesjay]

where do i start, i got a letter today and my hubby to be asked me to talk dirty to him... i told him i would send him one in my next letter. but i dont know what to write. i just feel really werid i guess it because i know that gaurds are readying it.i need some major help getting over this. so any one who write them to there hubbys,hubby to bes,boyfriends what ever please HELP!!!!!]

Btw i know this goes under prison mail but it wouldnt let me put it there:]

[BrownEyedGurl]

Well, I have same prob, so I'm not much help. My guy asked me to write him a fantasy I have had. Guess guys do that more. I'm not good at creative writing either. Wouldn't mind borrowing one from someone. Thanks Nay for this post and good luck with that!

[myluv4ever]

lol!!! My hubby & I write letters like this to each other all the time. To be honst with you hes better @ it All I do is just think of some things that I want us to do when he come home. He know what I like and vice versa so just put it together & you have a letter. Good Luck

[Dollface.09]

me and my hubby do this all of the time as well. At first, its kinda made me nervous, but i just wrote it all out and sent him it. he liked it. he was surprised though. and the best thing, is were not there to have to see their reaction. their the one whos gotta see the look on the COs face, not us lol. So we write eachother thm all of the time, of course hes better at it then i am. but its ok. after awhile you start to get better and better and it becomes more fun.
Just try to be creative. Write about a dream youve had. or a past experience youve had together, or something that you can wait to do to him when he gets home, or what you would do to his sexually if he was in your bed right now, ect.
There is also a website i heard about on here in the mail forum awhile back, its called hoochymail.com you go there and check it out. maybeit could write the story for you?? Good luck and let us know how your man likes his dirty letter!! Lol

[PhilB]

You need to check the state forum for the prison he is in. There may be similar incidents there with pictures. Every state has their own nudity policies on pictures.

[Jamies_Angel]

We've never had any problems sending sexy letters. i always get his and he always gets mine so it works out. now with sending sexy pictures thats out of the question he wont get them. i guess each jail/prison is different.

[gcoldtruck2]

NY will not permit any nude photos

[LadyT530]

yea I think in most of the facilities it is just a hit or miss kind of thing, where my man is we have been sending each other naughty letters that are pretty detailed and up until now they have all gotten through to him this week though 3 of mine got sent back to me stupid mail room ugh!! so all I can say is I hope everything works out for you and you find out what happened to your letter

[PhilB]

Sometimes it boils down to the individual Mail Room employee and "their" interpretation of obscene. Sending the same pic again might get through if another Mail Room worker checks it.

[Tyrin'sWife21]

Well it shouldnt be a problem because me and my man does it all the time and he gets his....even the regular letters lol...if they didnt say nothing now bout it u should be ok...

[alleykitten]

I dont know if it will help but the thing i do is spray some of his cologne so i smell his scent then i close my eyes and imagine he is here and so the fantasy begins and i write it all to him. The first time he sent me one i was so red in the face ,lol. cause i am pretty shy. But after i sent him one he said omg baby keep writing them. We love it since we cant be physical and phone stuff is out of the question now we call it our love making through the mail.

[4EVER4ALWAYS]

My hubby writes lil nasty remarks here and there and everytime i find myself with a huge smile on my face. I never thought that maybe he wanted to start with the sexy letter thing. I usually reply with some sexy remarks here and there also but its never the entire letter.. Hmm.. I think im a little shy thru letters.. Its weird but i think i'd be more comfortable face to face but now that i,ve read all these posts im thinkin about it.. Nay, hope you find it in you and your able to give him what he wants!! Im sure once you start you will get more comfortable over time! Plus, I'm sure it will become a fun game between the two of you!

[HiiS PaNDa BeaR]

hunny its so easy when i wrote da 1st 1 too my man he was suprised i had such a wild sexy side kuz im reservd n kinda shy at tyms..but showin da tiger inside u to him will jus show him a side hes gonna love even more..i personally LOVE writin em kuz i get to think of new plases to give him..what we were doin wat were wearin..get detailed of how u felt..wat u did..maybe even if he knows da fases u do..wat fase u did..deskribe it all..the more detaild da bettr da pik dey get in derre mind..n have variety..nevr da same thing..mix it up..gud luck hope u have fun!! o n he loves it when i add food..?? idk..
GET IT GIRL!!

[Temeron0926]

I cheat, (no not ON him, but in helping me write the letters) he knows it, but he likes it.....I use hoochymail.com. The last one I wrote him on my own, got sent back!

[Hisfatgirl]

Originally Posted by Temeron0926

I cheat, (no not ON him, but in helping me write the letters) he knows it, but he likes it.....I use hoochymail.com. The last one I wrote him on my own, got sent back!

Ive used hoochymail.com before too, and he told me to use my own ideas, its hard because we are MWI, but he writes good ones. And yours got sent back cause you was too much for them to handle...they probably played with themselves first and then sent it back...lol

[wvdonovan]

LOVE Hoochymail. You can only do six letters at a time then in a couple of weeks they o 6 new ones. It's awesome. And he loves them..as do the others on the pod. lmao

[JTNTAMI]

i write the best smut letters ever lol if u need to copy one of mine or give me an idea of what you tow like i will write one for u then e mail it to u. just let me know

[OnlyTheLonely]

Originally Posted by naylovesjay

where do i start, i got a letter today and my hubby to be asked me to talk dirty to him... i told him i would send him one in my next letter. but i dont know what to write. i just feel really werid i guess it because i know that gaurds are readying it.i need some major help getting over this. so any one who write them to there hubbys,hubby to bes,boyfriends what ever please HELP!!!!!]
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Google erotic short stories and you will find a lot of different 'fantasies' to send Him.
I find one i like and add stuff, delete stuff, change it up to personalize it more.
I found a really good one that wasnt too graphic about a chick that just started dating a dude and one evening/night she's thinking of asking him to come over and how she feels about him and how he makes her feel. I changed it around to make it fit my situation with my Man. It was basically a recreation of what it would be like when we see each for the first time in visitation and I go home after work and what Im thinking about (Him) and what Im doing to prepare for an evening alone.

I changed all the descriptions about the dude in it to match my Man. Lets say He definately liked it and it was just erotic enough to put some want and lust in his mind. It worked very well from His reaction.

PM me if you want and I'll give you the one Im talking about.

[sweetdaisydream]

I feel for ya. I haven't sent him anything like that, I just tell him things that could be about sex and then put ... "let your mind wander with that *wink wink*". He does that to me all the time ... haha. I know the next few letters will shock him. He's pretty respectful because he knows how religious I am ... so its funny if I do say anything like that

[R&R]

How do the prisons react to such letters if the person is in on a sexual offense charge?

[sswtkl601]

I have written him a couple letters and in each letter at the end I tell him what we are going to do the night he comes home and after it add a to be continued. It drives him nuts because then his mind starts wandering. I want to check out this hoochymail just to get some different ideas but wanted to know do they allow the xrated version or does it have to be sexy bc my fiance would think somethings funny if i didn't do xrated bc i do romance parties and he knows i do not get embarrased easily. If i am stumped I also use sex tip books and take excerpts from there.

[sswtkl601]

Originally Posted by R&R

How do the prisons react to such letters if the person is in on a sexual offense charge?

I didn't think of that but I guess I will find out because my fiance is there for a statutory sexual assault from when he was 20 and dating a girl that was going on 16 and had the parents permission to date her until the day he broke up with her. I will let you know if my letters get sent back to me if you want me to.

[JTNTAMI]

Hi, I have discovered a few women on Prison Talk have been having trouble with writing xxx letters for their men. Well I can help. I love writng them and am willing to share them with you. So if you are having a hard time or just need some new ideas let me know and i can send you some.

[GIGI831]

Ilove writing them too and I'm usually veryy ahem creative lol but lately I been feelin like there all repetitive just have different wording maybe you could gimme some ideas lol