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Dric's BabyGirl · #**101** 11-08-2010, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by N-4-long-haul

I just have a question for you girl...I have tried to write him some "GOOD" letters but they seem to keep getting denied. How are you girls getting these letters to your men? I want him to know that I want him physically, mentally and emotionaly...I just dont know how to get him a "GOOD" letter in, Ive tried to mix it in the middle, The whole letter had been naughty or just a little they all get denied entry.

PTO family please help me figure this out...thank you

NC don't have a problem with "those letters" as long as you don't put anything "illegal" in them -- you know things that have to do with being underage or animals, you get the picture. But I know some facilities won't let you send those kinda letters at all. There should be a section in your facility handbook that will tell you what they won't allow in regarding letters and pictures (and magazines and books) Good luck.

WVKitten2 · #**102** 06-04-2011, 05:10 AM

Is it wrong to send sexy poems, letters to your man? I'm not trying to drive him crazy, but honestly my mind is there about 90% of the time. What do you think?

Tlina · #**103** 06-04-2011, 05:24 AM

If it's wrong I'm in big trouble lol... almost every letter I send him has something sexy in it... comments, daydreams, short stories, racy pictures.... and he loves them!

bigteddy'sgrl · #**104** 06-04-2011, 06:22 AM

Absolutely not! My Boo doesn't want it all the time but sometimes I write it. :P

Mitch67 · #**105** 06-04-2011, 12:28 PM

I say do whatever you both feel comfortable with. If that means writing him sexy letters every now and then or every time then go for it! I am sure he will let you know what he likes and dislikes!

determined823 · #**106** 06-04-2011, 05:17 PM

I would think most men would like it, but just ask him if you are not sure or comfortable with doing it!

LeStrange · #**107** 06-04-2011, 06:03 PM

Uh no why would it be wrong? You do know that "sexy mail" is common in prison relationships right???

Alexgirl · #**108** 07-07-2011, 11:10 AM

Ok so my man sent me his first intimate letter a few weeks back and i wrote him in return an intimate letter I guess I was really worried about writing one assuming it would be really hard and when I put myself there it wasn't to bad.. He seemed to like it now I just got another intimate letter from him and I love them! I guess Im jsut wondering if you ladies send intimate letters and if you find them difficult to write? Im kinda having writers block lol!

Deidra20 · #**109** 07-07-2011, 11:15 AM

Yes all the time and he complians I dont write enough but it's like ugh !! what do I say.

Alexgirl · #**110** 07-07-2011, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Deidra20

Yes all the time and he complians I dont write enough but it's like ugh !! what do I say.

Lol really!!! I write him regular letters all the time and send him pictures ALOT. But he gets really into our intimate letters and I have to admit I love the ones from him, kinda takes me there you know? but yeah im having a hard time!! I can think it all but when I try to write it, im lke uuhhh

HisRockerGirl · #**111** 07-07-2011, 11:49 AM

I can easily see how it would be hard. Beast doesn't write letters quite like that, but he has written a few intimate lines in a letter. I write erotica as a hobby, so I just use him as my leading man. I havent sent him any though because I don't know if the letter would make it through. There is a site called Hoochymail.com that could be pretty helpful. I have seen it mentioned in here before and so I looked it up. If you prefer more personal stories, you could use the hoochymail as a guide line and build on it/change it to fit what you want to say.

You can also get some of those Harlequin type novels, read them and they might be able to give you some ideas.

Hope this helps. I have a new one I'm working on right now. I hope to have several short stories by the time he gets out. He likes reading westerns, so I am trying to work the old west into one of them. Ruthless Outlaw meets Prim and Proper lady of the town.

I can send you a couple of excerpts of one of mine if you would like some ideas.

Alexgirl · #**112** 07-07-2011, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by HisRockerGirl

I can easily see how it would be hard. Beast doesn't write letters quite like that, but he has written a few intimate lines in a letter. I write erotica as a hobby, so I just use him as my leading man. I havent sent him any though because I don't know if the letter would make it through. There is a site called Hoochymail.com that could be pretty helpful. I have seen it mentioned in here before and so I looked it up. If you prefer more personal stories, you could use the hoochymail as a guide line and build on it/change it to fit what you want to say.

You can also get some of those Harlequin type novels, read them and they might be able to give you some ideas.

Hope this helps. I have a new one I'm working on right now. I hope to have several short stories by the time he gets out. He likes reading westerns, so I am trying to work the old west into one of them. Ruthless Outlaw meets Prim and Proper lady of the town.

I can send you a couple of excerpts of one of mine if you would like some ideas.

thanks! Im finding if I do it in increments its easier lol yeah if you woulnd't mind i'd appreciate it! Lol my man gets very intimate and detailed

I love it

LeStrange · #**113** 07-07-2011, 01:09 PM

Nope.

TattsNcurves · #**114** 07-07-2011, 05:44 PM

At first I struggled, he suggested it and I was way too worried about who was gonna read it before he got it. Now, I am a friggen beast, and damn near every letter, on top of our specific sexy letter (we are exchanging one, adding to it sending it back n forth) has something naughty! Lmao

HisRockerGirl · #**115** 07-07-2011, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by TattsNcurves

At first I struggled, he suggested it and I was way too worried about who was gonna read it before he got it. Now, I am a friggen beast, and damn near every letter, on top of our specific sexy letter (we are exchanging one, adding to it sending it back n forth) has something naughty! Lmao

That is so cool! I did that once with someone. It turned out really well and our writing styles were so similar unless I remembered writing a certain passage, I couldnt tell who wrote what. It flowed really smoothly.

TattsNcurves · #**116** 07-07-2011, 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by HisRockerGirl

That is so cool! I did that once with someone. It turned out really well and our writing styles were so similar unless I remembered writing a certain passage, I couldnt tell who wrote what. It flowed really smoothly.

i really like it, we flow well off of eachother. i did a little too well last time though, he says he keeps "using it" and is taking forever in returning it to me the butthead

Stacieswrath · #**117** 07-07-2011, 09:18 PM

My Advice,
Go somewhere alone, Turn down the lights, and think about him and only him. Dont think what you would say to him, But Think... What would you do to him if he was there with you at the time. Put those thoughts in words. Think what you would want him to do to you, and what yall would do together, if yall were there. Dont hold back,, Write it all down.

**Patty** · #**118** 07-07-2011, 09:20 PM

I write almost around the clock for school, my business which includes erotica so I don't have any issues writing a sexy letter to my man. My best advice is to NOT use hoochymail because those same tired letters are passed around to all the prisons, besides they are reaaaaaaaaaaalllly corny. Instead try imagining things you and your loved one have done, things you hope to do and let the fantasies run free. It's nice to incorporate far away places you'd like to visit with him one day. If you did a random search on a tropical getaway for instance, you would learn about the area, see photos and such that will most likely inspire you to write about what would happen as you step off the plane and onto the sandy deserted beach that the two of you will call home for your post release vacation, imagine the sunset, feel the ocean breeze, the sound of his voice, the way his hand feels on your...

You can do this, I promise.

HisRockerGirl · #**119** 07-09-2011, 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Patty

I write almost around the clock for school, my business which includes erotica so I don't have any issues writing a sexy letter to my man. My best advice is to NOT use hoochymail because those same tired letters are passed around to all the prisons, besides they are reaaaaaaaaaaalllly corny. Instead try imagining things you and your loved one have done, things you hope to do and let the fantasies run free. It's nice to incorporate far away places you'd like to visit with him one day. If you did a random search on a tropical getaway for instance, you would learn about the area, see photos and such that will most likely inspire you to write about what would happen as you step off the plane and onto the sandy deserted beach that the two of you will call home for your post release vacation, imagine the sunset, feel the ocean breeze, the sound of his voice, the way his hand feels on your...

You can do this, I promise.

When I brought up Hoochymail, I was suggesting it as a basic guideline. Imagination is the best way to do it. Nearly any story you read or movie you watch with a romantic storyline can give you ideas. Take one or more than one and build on them.

lovesmyman4ever · #**120** 07-09-2011, 10:56 AM

those of you who need help writing stemy letters here is another site that i use i just fill in the blanks with what i am thinking or wanting to say and you can't copy cut paste them in a letter you have to write it down and i usually combine more than one letter at a time and the site is www.secerectloveletters.com they have ercotic letters and romatic letters just have fun picking one

pixystic · #**121** 07-20-2011, 09:20 PM

what i do is start the story with a page or so and then let him add to the story through his next letter. That way, we both have something to look forward to and it gives us both an idea of what the other likes.

ceci · #**122** 07-21-2011, 03:17 PM

Yep I'm more of I can show you better than I can tell you kind of girl but i have written a couple and he enjoyed them. I think Patty had some great ideas im going to have to put to use!!

Mrs Howard · #**123** 07-21-2011, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Alexgirl

Ok so my man sent me his first intimate letter a few weeks back and i wrote him in return an intimate letter I guess I was really worried about writing one assuming it would be really hard and when I put myself there it wasn't to bad.. He seemed to like it now I just got another intimate letter from him and I love them! I guess Im jsut wondering if you ladies send intimate letters and if you find them difficult to write? Im kinda having writers block lol!

My husband keeps asking me to send him an intimate letter, but Im having a difficult time trying to write one. When we talk from time to time, he says things to me that makes me wanna sing, if you know what I mean. Any help on writing an intimate letter ladies?

Gators Wife · #**124** 07-21-2011, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Alexgirl

Ok so my man sent me his first intimate letter a few weeks back and i wrote him in return an intimate letter I guess I was really worried about writing one assuming it would be really hard and when I put myself there it wasn't to bad.. He seemed to like it now I just got another intimate letter from him and I love them! I guess Im jsut wondering if you ladies send intimate letters and if you find them difficult to write? Im kinda having writers block lol!

Yeah its kind of weird writing dirty letters when you know someone else is going to read them first, but I wrote a bad bad one not too long ago. I thin its harder for us because the things I miss most are snuggling on the couch and watching his facial expressions..

missinmyboo88 · #**125** 07-24-2011, 11:52 PM

Hi ladies! Ok so lately I havnt been with boyfriend for 3 months cuz hes been locked up. He gets out the end of next month.... But everytime we write eachother I try and tell him lil things that I would hope get him turned on but for some reason I dont think its working. Im kinda shy but I hella miss him so Im trying here lol... I feel like Im not giving it my all to write a sex letter cuz I feel like I might sound stupid in the letter, any ideas or advice on how to write one and not sound stupid? Or any of you ladies write those kind of letters a lot? I guess maybe I should stop being shy, and tell him what Im feeling I just really dont want to sound stupid lol.