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[jodiesgirl]

Im new to the visitation process, but I've went and seen him a few times with his celly girlfriend. And I dont want to cause any drama, but I simply dont like the female. First thing when she picked me up she looked me up and down real extra with it. Second she didn't have any air in the car. Third we had to make about tweleve stops before we even headed to the prison. We finally get there and her and dude had some words during visitation. I had to hear that the ENTIRE way back. 4real! Im trying to absorb all this in. Then she charged me a ridiculous price, mind you both of us was going there so why I have to fill up the tank. Then my baby call and like you riding this weekend, I wanted to say HELL NO! But I miss him and I dont want to cause any drama. I'm sure you guys have worser stories than that, so tell me so I can laugh this off and not take it so serious.

[WORKERBEE]

Originally Posted by jodiesgirl

Im new to the visitation process, but I've went and seen him a few times with his celly girlfriend. And I dont want to cause any drama, but I simply dont like the female. First thing when she picked me up she looked me up and down real extra with it. Second she didn't have any air in the car. Third we had to make about tweleve stops before we even headed to the prison. We finally get there and her and dude had some words during visitation. I had to hear that the ENTIRE way back. 4real! Im trying to absorb all this in. Then she charged me a ridiculous price, mind you both of us was going there so why I have to fill up the tank. Then my baby call and like you riding this weekend, I wanted to say HELL NO! But I miss him and I dont want to cause any drama. I'm sure you guys have worser stories than that, so tell me so I can laugh this off and not take it so serious.

heres one for u .. my moose was in HIGH DESERT and his buddy needed to see his wife first time went ok... but i paid for everything second time the roads where snow and ice and she feel asleep at the wheel.... when we got there she told her man she had taken some kind of pills .... all this knowing she was suppose to be our driver because i dont drive well needless to say i drove. theres way more to that nightmare but that was the worst and the last lol... what we do because we r dieing to see them its love ... have a great visit

[thugwife]

I dont try to be nice to any females anymore. At one point I had 3 running cars, now down to 2

Alot of his boys from my town, would say, "I know your girl be coming, can you give my chick a ride, she'll pay you, yada-yada-yada.

After a week or so of phone calls to one female, that lived ON THE WAY there (not in my town, at all) she was always short with me, and I DID NOT like that. First of all, you have NEVER been to a prison and your gonna sit your ass on this phone and LET ME TELL YOU, what you need, what you can wear, etc, etc.

Nope, she was too busy all the damn time. I told her the last call that IF she was denied because she didnt want to listen to what I had to say, she was on her own. She would be sitting her ass across the street waiting on me for 4 hours, because she could not sit in my car on the property IF she was denied. Ok, well we schedule a pick up time (sorta) I would call her 10 minutes before the exit I had to get off and she'd meet me in the Dennys.

Mind you, I never seen this chick in my life so I had no idea what she even looked like. I call and call before I get off the exit, NOTHING, I kept on and on, nothing....
So, I thought maybe she left her phone at home, so me being nice I got off the exit, go into Dennys look around for anyone who MIGHT be her....Nothing.

Waited, called again...nothing.

I went on and left. So, I get to the prison after losing about 30-45 minutes on her dumb ass, I was livid, I told him NEVER again was I going to be nice to anybody. It aint my fault they aint got a ride.

Fast forward, of course I get another call from another female, Ill give you 50 bucks or so for gas (or whatever the cost she said) she hadnt seen her man in years, and this WAS when gas was damn near 5.00 a gallon. Well my man called and asked if she was coming or whatever, I said yeah, I guess, I aint breaking down anybodys door asking them to ride with me, because I GOT A DAMN CAR!

Its their responsiblity to call me. Then nothing more was heard from the girl and my husband told me later that the B* told her man that I tried to get her for 50.00 in gas NUMBER ONE, your dumbass offered me 50.00, so dont flip the script. Trust me, IF I hadnt seen my man in a long ass time, Id probably shell out some Benjamins my damn self

He hasnt asked me for nothing more than to make phone calls for a few of them and that I can handle.

Can you tell I am mad. I dont do rides, because I aint got time to waste.

Back in May last year, about a 60-70 year old woman was escorted out in handcuffs, she was sneaking dope into her man for YEARS! When that happened, the lady in the table beside us said she used to GIVE HER RIDES.

Nope, them females could hide dope or anything in your car, and then I lose my visits, it aint worth it.

Good luck though.

[AaronsBeautiful]

I had one bad experience with someone once I will never do it again. This chick came to see her man and did not even have a place to stay. She came up with someone else I took her in being nice and took her back and forth she paid me a little change for staying in my hotel room I had to feed this women mind you. Plus I transported her and she did not even offer me any gas money. Never again will this ever happen you cannot be nice to people I see that now. Mind you I am from Nebraska and she is from upstate. I will not be anyones fool again.

[h!s W!F3Y]

wow..them are some bad stories..and i am sorry that u all had to go through them nightmares..i guess i am one of the blessed ones because the ladies i go with are awesome and we always got each other..its never just a one way street..that goes for visiting and whenever one of us needs each other..u know the days ur feeling down and out well all i gotta do is call or text em and they got me..im forever thankful.

[jodiesgirl]

Thanks guys! I did smile! I found a site that offers shuttle service to state and federal prisons to facilities surrounding the memphis, tn area. on the website it says its nationwide. the name of the company is cftranz.

[Bluvsu2]

These stories make me sad. I know come Oct or Nov I won't be able to see mine often. My friend I go with her man will be moved. I thought about finding a ride, but it is so hard to trust someone.

[QPunky7408]

Hmmm I havent had too many real bad situations. LOl I miss my old riding partner but since they move my man once a month....grrrr. I been luck. I think I set the tone or at least I try to before the visit. Like I let you know You not on time or where you say you gonna be etc etc I am leaving. You are giving me the money up front we splitting it evenly I am fair etc etc. If we not cool and dont get a long I turn the radio up you can sleep or whatever. But most of them started out not being sure and all but It was always pretty good.

[yesndeede910]

My hubbys celly asked me to bring his girl and her 3 kids, cuz we from the same area, my hubby told him right quick nah she dont get down like dat. I aint givin no rides cause itz always some drama wid it. Aint got no money, aint got no food, boom boom boom.