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HisOutmate · #1 02-05-2011, 11:28 AM

So I was talkin to my babe today and we were talking about how much we miss each other and how excited we are for our visit on Friday (even though we saw each other just last weekend). He said he can't wait for one of my kisses.

Then he proceeded to tell me that he's told his "buddies" that my kisses are "mind blowing" and he's never had kisses like mine ever before.

I guess I should be flattered but a part of me is thinking... "I don't want a bunch of felons knowing that I'm an amazing kisser"

Am I over reacting? I probably am... but it seems like that's a little personal. What do ya'll think?

scd123 · #2 02-05-2011, 11:29 AM

You should be proud! He's proud of you and wants to show you off!

. Its not like those other guys will ever get to kiss you anyway right?

JustaNJgirl · #3 02-05-2011, 11:35 AM

He needs something to show off his feathers about to his buddies. An ego boost of sorts....be flattered! If he's saying it's mind blowing, he's also showing his feelings for you! You go girl!!!!

HisOutmate · #4 02-05-2011, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by scd123

You should be proud! He's proud of you and wants to show you off!

. Its not like those other guys will ever get to kiss you anyway right?

Heck no! He's going to be the last man I ever kiss.

A couple of days ago when we were on the phone... I heard another inmate yell..."TELL MEGAN THAT I'M TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT HER!!!"

lol. I guess I've never had a man be this into me ever before. I don't know how to handle it! He is so adorable! lol.

hischubchub · #5 02-05-2011, 12:36 PM

Thats awesome but once those 'buddies' get angry they will start talking mess getting in his head about you. Sad, but its how prison works!

tearfallzbreak · #6 02-05-2011, 12:39 PM

lol i think its funny it keeps him happy to think about you and adore you from afar mine goes off to everyone and his friends always shake his hand after a visit i blush its awkward.

Temeron0926 · #7 02-05-2011, 01:52 PM

He is just bragging, he is proud of you! I wouldn't take it badly, he is just letting the "guys" know he has a great woman!

LadyBlackz · #8 02-05-2011, 03:36 PM

Yea I agree with the ladies, he's just bragging

Just fluffin his feathers at the rest of the guys

That's like my Babe said that he showed my pic to a couple of the guys and they told him "Whats a beautiful woman like that doin with a guy like you??"

So yea we should all be flattered that they are talking about us in there.

E.RICA.RDO · #9 02-05-2011, 03:50 PM

yes u are over reacting

dont look at them as a bunch of felons. theyre the only friends he has right now. no1 else to talk to 24 hours out of the day.. the people hes busted with are just like him. just like us. theres nothing wrong with him having a little guy talk with the fellas..

angeldoll · #10 02-05-2011, 04:39 PM

girl hes just showing u off, hes proud of his girlie and wants his friends to know. i agree to not look at them like felons, theyre helpin making ur mans time in there at least a lil bit okies. my bb shows my pics off around his pod, even the topless ones haha. u have to take it with a grain of salt and look at it like hes just proud of u which he is

HisOutmate · #11 02-05-2011, 04:55 PM

Thanks ladies! Ya'll made me feel better. I'm flattered. I guess I should explain myself about the "felon" thing... we all know there are some very not nice guys in there... You just never know about people. And the more I think about it... the more I know that my love would not be telling stuff like that to just random men. I'm sure he trusts them. If he trusts them... then I should trust them.

But, I'm a shy and private person anyway... so just having that info out there beyond him and I is uncomfortable... but yeah.. you guys are right... guys will be guys. I'm pretty much his whole life right now... I guess I would have to expect him to talk about me some.

Love that man.

OoMiracleoO · #12 02-05-2011, 06:36 PM

Ohh they talk! They have nothing but time, and they gossip like little girls! ;P

poni'swoman · #13 02-05-2011, 06:53 PM

Men gossip more than women. I think it's very sweet what he told his friends.

LoveBuggy · #14 02-05-2011, 07:00 PM

If that's your biggest problem. Be grateful! Lol! When people are in love they want to shout it from the rooftops and let the world know. Just so happens your man is locked up so the next best thing is his felon buddies. Be glad!

I've seen threads on here that break my heart because a woman will complain that the BF is not telling anyone (not even family) about her. Your blessed

Bella Is Famuz · #15 02-05-2011, 08:35 PM

Ha Meagan....thats awesome. You know how they are in there...hes showing off and bragging on whats his. I wouldnt be mad. It aint like any other inmate is going to ever kiss you. Id be flattered =)

Jazzione · #16 02-06-2011, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by angeldoll

girl hes just showing u off, hes proud of his girlie and wants his friends to know. i agree to not look at them like felons, theyre helpin making ur mans time in there at least a lil bit okies. my bb shows my pics off around his pod, even the topless ones haha. u have to take it with a grain of salt and look at it like hes just proud of u which he is

I always wonder if my honey shows off my "sexy pics" to other guys...I guess I would be flattered too...but then again, when I am in the visitation room, I wonder, who in here has seen my boobs or buns...