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tchavon1984 · #1 02-05-2011, 09:16 PM

Before ever getting to know a single thing about him if you knew every single crime your man committed would you be with him (be honest)

my answer is no, he didnt tell me about his time in prison and some of the stuff he did in his past until after i got to know him a little he was a big time drug dealer robbed some ppl and what not even shot at ppl (dont know if he ever killed anyone and to be honest i never want to know) normally im not attracted to that type of guy but i'm so happy i didnt pass judgement because he's turned out to be my soulmate he left all that bs he's done as a child alone and i cant wait til he gets home

FutureMrsM · #2 02-05-2011, 09:25 PM

I could tell just by looking at my man that he had done some time, and it never stopped me.

Temeron0926 · #3 02-05-2011, 09:30 PM

If I had known what his crimes were, prior to writing to him (We are MWI, my cousin 'introduced' us) I wouldn't have given him the time of day! That would have been MY loss! No, the fact that he is a criminal is not high on my list of "positives" about him, but the things that ARE there, far outweigh his negative qualities!

LadyBlackz · #4 02-05-2011, 09:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FutureMrsM

I could tell just by looking at my man that he had done some time, and it never stopped me.

Exactly what she said

POOHSWIFE · #5 02-05-2011, 09:47 PM

Yes, I been with my husband since he was 18 years old. I know every bad thing his dumb butt has done. I love him no matter what. Am I disappointed sometimes? Yes but, who am I to judge someone else. He has always been there for me and our kids. We have always been clothed, fed and have a nice roof over our head.

xgot420issuesx · #6 02-05-2011, 09:47 PM

To be honest, I knew A LOT about Michael prior to even meeting him. I knew his crimes, not every one, not every detail, but I knew a heck of a lot. His Aunt was my best friend ...... lol ...... But I only heard what others had to say, not him.
When we first started talking to each other, I looked up his docket sheets, so even before we had a relationship, I knew what he had been arrested for as an adult.
All these years later, I am still with him, HAPPILY. So yes, based on his crimes and not knowing the whole story or him, yes I still would have been with him.
I took him on him, not on his crimes or what others had to say, I based Michael on WHO he is, not what he had done.

Mrs.Shakur2012 · #7 02-05-2011, 10:14 PM

Yes. He would have been honest and told me anyway. I wouldn't have to ask. That's what i love about him most because he's very honest about who he is now and what he was in his past. He's not the same man from his past so therefore, yes, i would've still been with him

MrsDB · #8 02-05-2011, 10:21 PM

I have always been attracted to babes types lol...but umm I think I woulda cuz I never liked judging ppl because they come from different backgrounds. I always thought I could help change ppl to be better.

Danielle88 · #9 02-05-2011, 10:24 PM

Well I dont see how a sane person looks for "criminal" on a boyfriend application, so no. If I knew nothing about him accept the things he has done I would have thought he was pure evil and ran like hell. I have gotten the anwsers to questions I wish I hadnt asked or that he would have just lied to me about, and the reason I'm here is because I love him for the person he is, not what he has done.

Jasons-girl · #10 02-05-2011, 10:40 PM

J was honest and upfront from the beginning about the time he had done in the past, and the crime he was accused of. He knew I could have walked away at any moment after he told me everything. I chose not to because what happened was past bad luck, and that doesn't define him to me. He is my other half, and I'm looking forward to building a life with him.

Thought provoking question, though - I never thought I'd love someone who had a "past."

peanut30 · #11 02-06-2011, 12:17 AM

ladyknuckle$ · #12 02-06-2011, 12:24 AM

If would be with him if I just knew his crimes & nothing else

SexyChef1 · #13 02-06-2011, 01:27 AM

Yes. When he wrote me looking for me to introduce him to one of my friends I googled him and read article after article and court documents. I even knew he had a life sentence before he told me. My ole mans sentence doesn't fit the crime. Whoever created the Kingpin law needs to be kicked is the ASS! I know he is a 90% changed man never 100% some things will never change and that's what I love about him.

SGV girl · #14 02-06-2011, 02:08 AM

I have known my man since I was 4, so what, 34 years almost now. I grew up with him, I know everything he's done...he has no violent offenses, the rest can be worked on. No big deal. Yes, I would be and am with him

lil peep · #15 02-06-2011, 07:15 AM

If someone showed me his rap sheet and a picture, then asked me if I'd go on a date with him...I would say yes because my attraction to him and curiosity would get the better of me!

That's a great question!

canthelpbutwait · #16 02-06-2011, 07:42 AM

Yes I would- actually we were MWI way back when- and I knew his crimes before I began talking with him- the ones since then are not severe, although illegal, they are no severe, and so I would say based on crimes alone- yes I would. And honestly, you cannot judge a person based on crimes- every one makes mistakes. One of my friends is doing time for murder- that is an awful crime, I know- but him as a person- he is a good person despite why he is in prison.

angeldoll · #17 02-06-2011, 08:47 AM

mmm i didnt know EVERYTHING that he did until recently, his p.o told me, and we've been together for a year and a half or so before he was locked up. and i was ike oh snap!! haha, i can see why he didnt tell me cause unlike now this stuff was all stuff he did, i would pissed if he did one of those again and he landed in jail. but hes smarter now. but yes i would still be with him and if he was still doing what put him in jail before this time i'd make him quit lol. MAKE HIM haha

TyronesWife · #18 02-06-2011, 09:12 AM

If the only thing I had to go was his rap sheet then hell no! The crimes he was convicted of, and the details of the crimes, are pretty hard core. I'd be scared to death. Actually it's more the details then the charges alone that would have had me running. Luckily I took the time to get to know him so I know that he is not that person.

E.RICA.RDO · #19 02-06-2011, 09:24 AM

attempted murder & assault with a firearm [thats what he got caught for anyway..def not ALL the crimes hes ever done lol] but UMM NO! LOL..People probably assume hes a monster.. but hes not. hes MY teddy bear <3

**Lorraine** · #20 02-06-2011, 09:26 AM

We are mwi and I knew the bulk of his crimes before we ever met, so yes.

OneOfMany · #21 02-06-2011, 01:49 PM

In his first letter he told me his crime.

Here we are 13 years later.

thugwife · #22 02-06-2011, 08:31 PM

Yes, although he done some bad shit back in his kid days.

He was 17 when I got with him and I knew he had the largest rap sheet in town, so it was no suprise. I cant even imagine what all it contains really.

scorpiolover28 · #23 02-06-2011, 09:28 PM

No. When my sister was trying to set us up, she told me he was nice and cute. If she would have said he was also on parole I wouldn't have gone. That would have been my loss. During the first week of our relationship, my sweetie opened up to me and told me everything. He is the most fabulous man I have ever known and I am lucky to have him.

all_the_way · #24 02-06-2011, 11:11 PM

great thread, my answer is yes i would have, I have known my husband my whole life since I was 9 so there isnt much of anything I didnt know before we started dating but Even not knowing anything but his crimes I would still be with him in a heart beat because no matter how bad he may have been he still gives me a wonderful tingle in my body by just his eyes looking into mine!