~~July 2011 Lifer Chat~~

[dc's girl]

I hate missing my husbands calls. So now we set the days and what time he can call. Always gives me something to look forward to. And I feel like a kid in a candy store waiting for that time to come. Hope you get to talk to him soon.

[MichelleInLove]

Well I just got a call from one of his friends saying he will call tomorrow at 3:30. It sucks cause of his sentence and the tier he is on when the call list comes around it is crappy times when he knows I will be at work, so we can't have a set phone time!

[dc's girl]

That sucks. Hopefully you'll get to talk to him soon.

[Peach&Cream]

Originally Posted by MichelleInLove

Ladies I need some support!
I keep missing his calls when I am at work or out doing something, my cell phone is still not unlocked and I am super depressed!!! I don't want him to feel like I am avoiding him, I know he doesn't think that he understands I work and stuff! But I am so mad at myself and kicking myself in the ass for missing his calls!!! HELP! NEED A CHEER UP!

Missing one another will help you love one another more - and when you hear each others voices your going to feel drugged hang in there!

[Peach&Cream]

Originally Posted by MichelleInLove

Well I just got a call from one of his friends saying he will call tomorrow at 3:30. It sucks cause of his sentence and the tier he is on when the call list comes around it is crappy times when he knows I will be at work, so we can't have a set phone time!

comcast has a great feature where u can forward your house calls anywhere ur want to receive them... on your cell or at work, u name it! i had to pay a monthly fee to GTL for the cell phone access, but it worked out sooo awesome, i could be "anywhere" and get his calls.

[tluna1051]

Originally Posted by Peach&Cream

got a letter today from lifer... this is the third time in a month he's mentioned being back in contact with an old "friend" ((i've been a close part of his life for 11 years ~ she must be a child hood friend, i've never heard about her b4 ((what perfect timing she's got)) *rolling my eyes*

i havent asked questions, but it seems he wants me to ask already.... im not going to, she's his business - i am surprised he's reaching out to women after all we've been through, but good for him!

I would feel exactly the way you do, I've had a dream about my man talkin to another women at a family event and even in my dream I was hecka jealous...I even went as far as being upset with him over the phone...he finally asked why I was so "moody"...I told him...he found it "Cute"...but my dream ended him coming home with me, our home, and making sweet love to me...I felt all his wonderful touches, his hands caressing me, his lips upon my neck, my chest and my nipples...That feeling was all so real...I really felt him there in my dream....and in my heart...I love this man(known him since i was 15yr ole)...and Thats why you feel that way...you have every right to feel those feelings...I believe, that if you trust him and you know he loves you...than just look past it as its his friend...and your his girlfriend/wifey....hope that helps...(hugs)

[casd619]

Originally Posted by MichelleInLove

Ladies I need some support!
I keep missing his calls when I am at work or out doing something, my cell phone is still not unlocked and I am super depressed!!! I don't want him to feel like I am avoiding him, I know he doesn't think that he understands I work and stuff! But I am so mad at myself and kicking myself in the ass for missing his calls!!! HELP! NEED A CHEER UP!

When my now-husband calls and Im not there, in the 3 seconds or so that they have to say their name he says things like "Love you baby..Muuaaa!" then I have his voice on my answering machine and I can play it over and over. When I walk in my house and here the "beep" from my machine, at first I am bummed that I missed the call. Then I hear his voice and it's all good. He knows the deal

[tluna1051]

Good Afternoon...Just thought of writin a few lines...Ima girlfriend soon to be wifey to my man in Calipatria..LWOP(been down for 15yrs now). We are both Native American (Navajo), I have known my baby since I was 15, he was 17 at the time. We grew up in a very small town on the reservation. He was/is my first everything..I love him truly and deeply with all my heart..regardless and unconditionally. He says we've been married since we were young...just need to make it official and on paper..HAHA.. One of the late nites together after sweet love making...on top of our hill...he asked me to marry him...I said "YES"...I remember that nite clear as day and so does he...Just wish Calipatria will get the marriage thing in order so we can finally do this right...Anyhow, a year or so later we had a fall out for about 2yrs, those 2yrs did it..he became a person I didnt know, the sweet 6'3" young man I knew was gone..he was a totally different person I fell in love wit..so we went our separate ways...thats when he got in trouble(I got pregnant for an A-Hole)...MURDER...1st trial was a hung jury, state filed a motion to have charges changed from capital murder to manslaughter...2nd trial would have been a hung jury but judge(same one from 1st) demanded the jury to come back with a verdict...in all they did....a guilty verdict and LWOP...So thats where were at now...I know in my heart he didnt do it(Im sure some of you are rolling your eyes)...But I just know it...anyhow, here I am...in love once again...a girl standing in front of a boy....asking the LORD on bended knee...for help(prayers)...guidiance...faith...love...for keeping their love alive and strong...(Amen)...

Those are just a more then a few words I just wanted to vent....cuz ima missing my LIFER tremendously this lonely Saturday...I so wanted to visit this weekend but I just couldn't make it this time around...but I'll be visiting next weekend...YAY!!