Being so mad, and then you hear his voice

[a&jalways]

We lightweight argue all the time but I swear we do it cause it turns us both on when we hear each other get mad..

When he acts crazy tho (: definitely gets me all wanting him even mote lolol

[denisegallegos]

The company i work for keeps me extremely busy! After work there are always issues here at home, my young daughters are wonderful but well they are kids.
So some days I'm not only exhausted but my mind is over loaded!
When my baby calls i go to our bedroom and when i hear his voice everything is okay he always praises me as well as reassures we will make it!
I have a wonderful hubby!

[HappyNLove]

Originally Posted by caseylanet08

lmao!!! I love it. we start arguments with each other just for fun because we love to make up but unlike you even when hes home I have no backbone. Ill puff up like a rooster, but I fold real quick lol

Well my baby has been in four eight months and we've never argued. I might start a fight just to make up. LOL

<3 Missing My Man <3

[daisybaby]

Sometimes, I get so overwhelmed with everything I have going on, because I let things pile up and keep everything bottled up until I eventually "explode" and vent it all out on him. I'm not gonna lie, sometimes I can be pretty mean to him and sometimes I feel like I don't deserve him because the entire time i'm being mean to him, he just listens to me and sweet talks me to calm me down and tries to be understanding!

And then I feel like crap afterwards and then I apologize a million and one times over the next day and he just acts like I was never mean to him in the first place! He makes me fall in love with him all over again

[kamehardy]

Originally Posted by NeverDull

When he calls and I hear his strong, sexy voice with that beautiful accent I get all mushy inside like a 12 year old girl.

I feel the same way I can be so angry and overwhelmed that I just want to quit but he'll call me and it just all goes away I can hear the smile in his voice and it makes me feel so much better

[misskatherine]

I was angry when I went to see him & I was ready to have a go. Then he came out. And couldn't remember what I was angry about!xx

[Sheryl P.]

We can't have phone calls but I may be really angry with him and then when he comes out for his visit (even if it is through glass) all he has to do is smile and it is all over.For some crazy reason I just can't be mad at him lol.
He does not even need to say anything :-)

[Sexy_Bella]

Originally Posted by Sheryl P.

We can't have phone calls but I may be really angry with him and then when he comes out for his visit (even if it is through glass) all he has to do is smile and it is all over.For some crazy reason I just can't be mad at him lol.
He does not even need to say anything :-)

LoL!! Thats how it is for me to. Just would love phone calls tho. Im just havin another f*cked up day...

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[Sheryl P.]

Originally Posted by Sexy_Bella

LoL!! Thats how it is for me to. Just would love phone calls tho. Im just havin another f*cked up day...

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I hear you.
It sucks when all you want to do is talk to them after a rough day and can't even get a call.
I pray every day (in my case) that the hunger strikes have a positive effect and that the guys are given a chance to get released from shu.
I hope your day gets better

[MnNice]

Oh yes!!
I'll be all "Im not gonna answer the phone or he is gonna hear about it!!"
Than he calls and its all lovey and smiley LOL
i sometimes wonder if im bi-polar or if this is just the prison roller coaster cycle!
haha

[Patty]

Originally Posted by caseydee

But anyways the point is, do you all have a problem with being mad and then they call and you hear their voice, and it just melts away?

Nope, and for me it's not just about being mad, I could be feeling any emotion, dealing with every situation and he calls and I am going to discuss whatever is on my mind. We are fully engaged in our relationship regardless of the physical distance the DOC has seen fit to put between us. That physical distance is all they get from us, nothing more. There will be no sugar coating, no making exceptions cuz he is on lock, nope no way and no how. My man is a good communicator and he understands people. There is no way in hell he would settle for me putting ish on the backburner ever and I'm the same way. We have a saying, "Say what you mean, not what you think I want to hear," and we live by it every single, dingle day...

[dalesgirl]

Originally Posted by Patty

Nope, and for me it's not just about being mad, I could be feeling any emotion, dealing with every situation and he calls and I am going to discuss whatever is on my mind. We are fully engaged in our relationship regardless of the physical distance the DOC has seen fit to put between us. That physical distance is all they get from us, nothing more. There will be no sugar coating, no making exceptions cuz he is on lock, nope no way and no how. My man is a good communicator and he understands people. There is no way in hell he would settle for me putting ish on the backburner ever and I'm the same way. We have a saying, "Say what you mean, not what you think I want to hear," and we live by it every single, dingle day...

This is a great response. A healthy relationship talks about everything, even the difficult stuff. Holding back anger ends up in resentments and will come up sometime and probably not in a good way. BTW by talking about everything, we sometimes have things to discuss but hardly even get angry at each other.

[kjg]

yep it happens alot. Im frustrasted and pissed at him for getting into this mess. I had nothing to do with it other then trying to be a good and supportive gf. There are days when I vent to him to let him know. Then he calls me and tells me hes sorry..but it helps sometimes. I think its normal the way we feel.