This one guard always picks on us, and I'm sick of it

[shorty27]

grrr everytime we go for a visit this one gaurd always stares at me and picks on us i am so sick of it. this time he walked over to our table and said you know you guys really stand out and my man says why cause were hott and he says well she is pretty hott but thats neaither here nor there you know why you stand out i said no why he just laughed and walked away and then when it got closer to visiting closing this lady gaurd moved us across from one another and said thats enough of that non since i was pissed and this one guy gaurd always stars and asks us to move its only us he comes up to the whole time i am there i am about to call the jail and complain he sleeps of and on the whole time i am there he just looking for someone to pick on and i am really tired of it my man is good in there never in trouble and we were sitting just as close as everyone else this is begging to be bullshit!

[bumblebee37]

Well good luck on that. I found challenging the CO's at my sons place just makes crap harder on him.

[shorty27]

i was gonna try to do it with out givin a name of the offender i am just so mad but i guess we only have six more months just bunch shit i drive 4 and half hours away.

[denisegallegos]

Next time the guard is there just politly ask " what is your name"? If anything it will get him curious as to y u want his name. Always document date, time and exactly what is said, don't let fear of his position get to you. Its not fair.

[Miss_A]

In life, we have to pick our battles, and this battle is probably best left alone. I know it's frustrating, but since your man is short on time, the less waves you make, the better. Just brush those guards off. They're really not worth it.

[lagoyapolaka]

Originally Posted by denisegallegos

Next time the guard is there just politly ask " what is your name"? If anything it will get him curious as to y u want his name. Always document date, time and exactly what is said, don't let fear of his position get to you. Its not fair.

I agree with this - if he knows you know his name (its usually on there uniform) then he more then likely will second guess his self

[amyluvsny]

Sounds like we could be visiting at the same prison! Same things happens almost every time i go see my man. other people around us are MORE affectionate but they second i touch his face, or God forbid~smile~ this one CO is right up on us "don't you know the visitng rules?" they have moved me across from him too, i just hate it!!
but listen if your guy has short time, i'd let it go. they are jealous!!!