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Sad_Eyes · #1 10-19-2011, 09:01 PM

Hi everyone,

I am new to this site and new to the boyfriend in prison experience. It is my understanding that they do not read the letters between my boyfriend and I at the jail he is currently at, but when he gets to prison in the next few months, I am guessing they will be reading both mine and his mail. Is that correct? If so, what are you not allowed to write about, or what reasons would they have to refuse to accept a letter? I am trying to prepare myself for this experience, but I don't think I will ever truly be prepared...

LBoogie0810 · #2 10-19-2011, 09:17 PM

you can write about whatever you want... I suggest that it doens't have any hint of an escape attempt or anything like that LOL but yes your mail and his will be read

will_be_waiting · #3 10-19-2011, 09:35 PM

I learned that NOTHING you write, send, or say is private. It can all be read, saved or recorded.

miss.ashley1988 · #4 10-19-2011, 09:39 PM

As I have been writing for years..... and had a couple of COs just know that there is most likely nothing you or him can say that they havent heard before...

and as stated as long as it nothing about escaping or planning something that is wrong, you should be OK!

Sad_Eyes · #5 10-23-2011, 10:33 PM

Thank you everyone for the advice. I appreciate it!