Advice for good boudoir photos

[FutureMrsM]

Hello!

I can't say enough about PTO. Thank you so much for being such an awesome resource for me.

I hope I'm posting this in the right place. My question is this...I'm trying to gain the courage to send my man some sexy photos (this is sooooooooooo out of my comfort level). Because I'm so prude about it, I don't know how I should take these pictures. I don't want them to be raunchy, but I would like them to be classy yet naughty enough get his mouth watering and maybe effect another part of his body, if ya know what I mean. So, how do I take the pics? I don't really want to ask my mom and I don't have a friend that I'm comfortable asking. Do you all have any suggestions? I can't afford a professional photographer, either.

Thanks.

[Indylissa]

Does your camera have a timer? If not put a mirror in front of you and strike some poses. Get comfortable with taking the pics. Pretty soon you'll be a pro

[FutureMrsM]

Originally Posted by Indylissa

Does your camera have a timer? If not put a mirror in front of you and strike some poses. Get comfortable with taking the pics. Pretty soon you'll be a pro

I'm not sure...I'll have to check. Thanks tho!

[Ytisgirl]

Not from tx are you? I got the courage to do them too, i hate taking pics lol. I did end up really enjoy doing it. Guess since i knew who they were for. I even did it again two days later with a friend who is starting his own photo business. Look forward to doing it again!

[mom2qtee]

This is so funny. My Sweetie asked me to take some sexy pics for him. I understand how you feel about them not being raunchy but sexy. Sexy enough to get a "reaction". I will see if my camera has a timer and try it out...

[FutureMrsM]

Originally Posted by Ytisgirl

Not from tx are you? I got the courage to do them too, i hate taking pics lol. I did end up really enjoy doing it. Guess since i knew who they were for. I even did it again two days later with a friend who is starting his own photo business. Look forward to doing it again!

No, I'm not from TX. I wish I had an aspiring photographer friend who could help me out. I'm nervous but excited about doing it at the same time. They just need to be tasteful (tasty too! ).

[Ytisgirl]

I know what you mean. i think i posed my self most of the time. He just kept snapping them. They turned out awesome. I just kept thinking as if yti was there and i was being seductive and teasing to him.

[Ponch'slady]

My man wants me to send him some very sexy pics..I'm not sure if they will get thru to him or if I should even do it.What do I do?I want to please him but I am shy about my body that he has never seen..only my neck up.He does know I'm chunky..I told him that,he says he doesn't want his woman to be skinny.But I know they check the mail and might not let him even have them.

[Heluvedme1st]

He can have them... They just can't be naked phots... But you can do panties and bra and things like that

[passionfruit]

Wow...you can send that type of pic...I've Always wondered...I'm shy too..I juSt don't want Everyone seeing me...lololol bUt I may send something sexy but with clothes on..-

Originally Posted by Heluvedme1st

He can have them... They just can't be naked phots... But you can do panties and bra and things like that

[JGOeffner]

Do it, do it, do it!
It's an exciting thrill for him AND you.
Have a friend take a lot of pics, different angles and poses, send the ones that only you like the best. They'll be more flattering than what you think.
Do it!

[Heluvedme1st]

Originally Posted by passionfruit

Wow...you can send that type of pic...I've Always wondered...I'm shy too..I juSt don't want Everyone seeing me...lololol bUt I may send something sexy but with clothes on..-

Yes they can have them... I do them for my Husband and surprise him... And you know what happen from there lol

[his_love_4ever]

I do these.. i did some bubble bath ones n my man was sooo suprised and happi..now he asks for some all the time...and i do it ever now n then only 2 keep the spark alive..so when he gets them he loves it... but only the mail room sees it i dnt think ur mans gonna go around n show every1...

[kindergirl]

Originally Posted by JGOeffner

Do it, do it, do it!
It's an exciting thrill for him AND you.
Have a friend take a lot of pics, different angles and poses, send the ones that only you like the best. They'll be more flattering than what you think.
Do it!

I totally agree! I am waay more than a little shy about my body, but I sucked it up and sent them off. He was all & & & MORE MORE MORE PLEASE!

You will surprised how it will boost your self confidence.

DO IT!!!!

[Ytisgirl]

I really enjoyed it too. I hate taking pics too.

[Hisoneandonly]

Actually you might want to check with the state forum, for your prison...not all states allow "good pics"...Heck in VA, I have them sent back for me in jeans and a tank top b/c it was half nude and no cleavage was even showing. He can't even have one of me in a swim suit...so you want to double check.

[ricksbabe]

raunchy pics doesnt necessarily have to be naked pics so i really doubt hes asking for naked pics. like someone else said, check your state forum to be sure. on the other hand whats the worst that can happen, if he cant have them they'll send them back. dont send anythign your not okay with sending and you'll be okay

[LadyBlackz]

yup I agree with the ladies, check your state forum to find out the rules. other than that...it aint like the pics you send HAVE to be naked or anything...wear a little kinda see through nighty or something like that. Or if your brave do bra and panties while your layin on the bed. layin down always makes you look skinnier

[jazz12]

My boyfriend has been wanting me to send sexy pictures. But he hasn't made a big deal cause I told him I don't feel comfortable. But with Father's Day coming I want to do them as a suprise gift. Any suggestions??

[HisRockerGirl]

I know my guy's favorite poses, so I take photos in our headboard mirror that has an etched frame so they are automatically framed and look very nice. If you know a certain way that he likes to see you lay or what not, try to get a pic in that position. Or maybe have a friend take them for you.

[MissingChris~]

My man finally broke down and asked me if i was comfortable with it...I just dont wanna have to take them to get printed and know the mail room is looking at them. i know my man is very private so im not worried about others seeing them but who knows what kind of incentive people offer in there. lol He said his celly was checking out our family pics and said i was hott and chris got his panties in a wad. I dont even kow whats allowed and whats not. I said i would send a boob shot if and when i felt comfortable...but i gotta find out if thats okay

[LifeTraveler]

Make sure you find out what is acceptable at your boyfriend's facility.

[HisRockerGirl]

I don't know what is allowed from state to state, but here in Oregon, as long as there are no nipples or... um... downstairs spots showing they let them through. I usually take pics in cute panties or something like that. I sent him one that he had taken and it was one of his favorites, but I had to edit slightly to cover the nipples.

[jazz12]

He has checked all that boobs are okay just no nipples and no downstairs. He loves my butt n boobs I just want to get some nice sexy pics done for him like by a real photographer. But that maybe exspensive

[jazz12]

Thanks ladies