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Music83 · #76 06-11-2011, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by lovesjames

It was really hard for me to send pictures at first. I'm 44 years old and have a 4 year old and he was wanting sexy pics???

I didn't know what to do!! So, I started walking every day, doing sit-ups, push-ups etc. and ended up losing 20 pounds. Now he gets the sexy pics and he loves them! I enjoy making him happy and I've really enjoyed being able to buy new sexy underwear and having it look good on me

Thats awesome congrats on the progress!! I need to start working on getting healthy not so much on losing weight.. If you just start eating right the weight will come off! Keep it going!

DivaliciousGH · #77 06-11-2011, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by MrsEcHiii12

Awww I have twin girls who are five ... And girl my Lil muffin top looks just fine laying down or holding it in for five seconds .. I was ashamed too but then i was like o what the heck hahahah :0) I rock my thickness with confidence and I wear the outfits that fit me perfect you know :0) ..... Everyone is beautiful 

Aww, I have twin girls (Za'riyah and Aaliyah) who are 3 about to be 4 next month. Haha, ya girl I have the lil muffin top with the stretch marks. Even though my man tells me all the time he loves my thickness. I kinda wish I could have my body back before I had kids. But I'm inspired now to finally take some sexy pics for him. It's nice to know I'm not the only one.

MrsEcHiii12 · #78 06-11-2011, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by DivaliciousGH

Aww, I have twin girls (Za'riyah and Aaliyah) who are 3 about to be 4 next month. Haha, ya girl I have the lil muffin top with the stretch marks. Even though my man tells me all the time he loves my thickness. I kinda wish I could have my body back before I had kids. But I'm inspired now to finally take some sexy pics for him. It's nice to know I'm not the only one.

Awww too cute I love there names my girls names are Akayla and Akyla they keep me busy  but I love it hey wanna know how I lost some of my muffin top I started drinking more water and less soda and walk 30 mins a day and did 200 sit ups a night lol whew I was beat !!!!!! But girl if ya man say you good then you good .... Awww go girl!!!!! He will love it

MissingChris~ · #79 06-11-2011, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by MARIESANCHEZ

hello i can see ur man is almost home mine needs 1 yrs and 4 months well hope we can be friends on here

definately, hopefully he gets sent to wr in sept. <3

MissingChris~ · #80 06-11-2011, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by raven1108

how did you email them ?.corrlinks/trulinks do not allow attachments.just wondering is all.

he is at occ in wa and the email is through j-pay. each e-mail is like 15 cents and each attachment is as well. right above the message there is a button that says upload attachments..... hope that helped.

lovesjames · #81 06-14-2011, 08:16 AM

A corset works great for making the muffin top look not so much like a muffin! I bought one on ebay for about $13 including shipping. I just laced myself in there and the camera was none the wiser!!

DivaliciousGH · #82 06-14-2011, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by lovesjames

A corset works great for making the muffin top look not so much like a muffin! I bought one on ebay for about $13 including shipping. I just laced myself in there and the camera was none the wiser!!

Thanks Hun, for the tip. I'm gonna try that and get a nice baby doll instead of the whole "bra and panties"

DP's Girl · #83 06-26-2011, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by MissingChris~

So my man is a very private guy and never came out and asked me for "sexy" pics until I brought it up. I read a thread in the wa forum where someone asked what was appropriate.I was telling him about what they allow and he was so excited I opened that convo door.lol he was like "really?? , I was scared to ask because i thought you'd be like heck no".... i wasn't even considering it, however my friends told me it would be a nice suprise and i needed to quit being so shy and do it. So i did..... I was so nervous because im very private as well. I sent them through e-mail because i didn't want to print them..HE LOVED THEM...he called me like " whats up sexy:....lol told me when he opened the e-mail it sent him to a cold shower. lol he now wants hard copies in the mail.....have any of you ever sent pics? whats exceptable at your mans prison? were you shy or insecure like i am??....keep convos tasteful we dont need all the dirty details but...some.lol

I am pretty conservative but I sent him pics. I sent them for Valentine's day. I put one sexy pic in a card everyday for a week. He was so shocked because he never thought I would do it. I sent some butt shots, breast shots, and full body shots. At his prison anything is acceptable except nipples and actual nude reproductive organs. I took all the pics in different lingerie and one in

Jesus's Wifey · #84 07-28-2011, 04:47 PM

i want to send some sexy pictures to my Fiance, anyone have any ideas.?! i get nervous sending him that type of pictures, and i need some ideas on what to wear and that kind of stuff lol

closer2mydreamz · #85 07-28-2011, 09:12 PM

You can take some pics of you standing in the bathroom mirror after a shower. On the mirror you can write in lipstick I love you, I miss you, or his name with your lip prints. (kisses)

bnichole69 · #86 07-28-2011, 10:12 PM

I have always wanted to do this too, my idea was to take some in a men's over sized white button up dress shirt and a tie or maybe a long strand of pearls & heels or maybe a football jersey of his favorite team and pigtails...just cute, sexy things nothing too bad just enough to make his imagination run wild!

MELROSEPL · #87 07-28-2011, 10:19 PM

i did a ton of pics in bathing suit tops, sexy lingere, even mesh thongs, as long as no personal parts are showing, heck you can even "cup" your boobs with your hands, those pics go thru, i even had close ups of me in my thong, front and back........a lil' mystery adds alot, have fun with the camera!!!!

bailorjail · #88 07-29-2011, 09:48 AM

ladies, i do photography and i do shoots for women that want to send pics, one thing i will say is dont send more than 5 at a time and remember this number the back of the pics kinda small then when you talk to them you know if they received all the photos as well which ones the guards took

TylersGiirl · #89 09-09-2011, 04:52 PM

I'm thinking about sending my boyfriend who's still in county a sexy pic but I'm really hesitant. They're only supposed to have 4 pics which he already has. I have no idea how to even go about it. I'd be so afraid my body would be floating around in the mail room if it didn't get to him. Do you girls take the pics yourself or have someone help? Where do you get them printed? I'd love to do it to make him happy but idk. Any help or experiences would be awesome..thanks!

waitin4appeal · #90 09-09-2011, 11:08 PM

Get a friend to help and print at walmart or somewhere, once you've printed it you can get over the embarrassment

Also, they may let extra pic slide if they don't notice. If not, you'll just get it back in the mail, no biggie.

FutureMrsM · #91 09-10-2011, 10:00 PM

I had some professional pictures taken. Now, let me say that I have a terribly low self esteem and was terrified and nervous as hell, but I thought to myself, "this man has seen me naked and wants to be my husband (we got married while he's been locked up) so he obviously sees something he likes in me." So I did it...for him. I made the best of it. I went out and bought me some high heels (I normally NEVER wear them), a jersey of his favorite team (he once told me that he thinks it's sexy when women wear oversized jerseys, I bought a bunch of new make up and some sexy bras and panties. I looked for videos on youtube on how to do my make up and did my hair in a way I know he loves.

I researched boudoir photographers and found one I was comfortable with and I had a blast doing it. My husband LOVED the pics and still talks about them to this day (I sent them for our anniversary back in April). I would say do it and make the best of it. I must have been a little bit nervous at the beginning of my shoot because the photographer told me, "pretend like your man is the one behind the camera." Boy that was all I needed to hear. I don't regret it for one minute. If the pics ended up in the mail room, oh well. This city is large enough that no one would ever recognize me, especially since I never wear my hair or make up that way.

I ended up sending 5 pictures but the photographer gave me about 25 to choose from. I asked my man to pick out his favorite so I can have them blown up for him, but he said it was impossible for him to pick just a few, that he wants them all, lol. That confirmed to me that I made the right decision.

Good luck!

AlwaysHisBonnie · #92 10-06-2011, 07:02 PM

Want to take some pictures but i don't know how much i can show off for my man or the limit before the COs say something?

gabbsplus2 · #93 10-31-2011, 03:39 PM

How can I possibly feel sexy when I am 29wks pregnant with his child? lol He is so crazy!! I am embarrased though, dont they read your letter and have to see those pix? Yikes! Oh my...I dont think I can do it...or

can I lol After all the "was he cheatin or not back then"...this brought a laugh to my day

rickysgrl · #94 10-31-2011, 03:41 PM

Only do what you're comfortable with.
There's nothing wrong with taking them, but there's nothing wrong with not taking them either.
Best of luck on your decision either way!!

he_is_missed · #95 10-31-2011, 03:47 PM

I'm always hesitant to send risky pictures to my love lol he just tells me to be careful what I send because he doesn't like other ppl seeing them lol or god forbid them getting lost!!!

maybe send him pix showing off your belly

my babe LOVED getting those and said they were the sexiest thing ever! lol

BFAV4EVER · #96 10-31-2011, 03:53 PM

I know how you feel, my babe asked me to send some, I told him I was embarrassed and don't like my body (I'm a little overweight) ... and just hearing him tell me that I was sexy to him and that is all that matters, I felt better about sending them. As for the prison opening and seeing them, trust me they see so much they don't give them a second look! I got my sister to come over and we had fun doing it. I even put some of his clothes on, a long dress shirt with a few buttons undone, it was sexy yet kept stuff covered too. But I'm sure your man would love those belly pics, its always a beautiful picture!

Sheryl P. · #97 10-31-2011, 04:02 PM

I think there should be nothing MORE sexy than a woman pregnant with HIS child.
Do what you feel comfortable with but remember he probably finds you VERY sexy!

EnjoyLife · #98 10-31-2011, 05:02 PM

boy shorts and a tank top

hiswifetobe · #99 10-31-2011, 06:18 PM

I took some for my man. It was so hard but once u finished, I made a game out of it. I stripped for him n give him two pictures a week. Its a lot of fun to tease him

I almost did not do it but I did n happy I did
I had my bff take the pictures for me n we also had lots of laughs.

Amanda_UWW · #**100** 10-31-2011, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by gabbsplus2

How can I possibly feel sexy when I am 29wks pregnant with his child? lol He is so crazy!! I am embarrased though, dont they read your letter and have to see those pix? Yikes! Oh my...I dont think I can do it...or

can I lol After all the "was he cheatin or not back then"...this brought a laugh to my day

Haha.. Send him the pictures. Make a game out of it. When I did this, I turned into my alter-ego. I had a different name and I would wear bright red lip stick and do my hair differently. I would then send him a riskkkkaaaayyy letter to go with it and he would have to complete or continue the story but it was not from me... it was from my "Other Name". Even on the return address I wrote that other name. That way, the guards can assume, but they do not know for sure who the person in the pictures are.
Have fun.