He broke up with me

[ThaLadylove21]

I guess when its really good... Its gone so fast itll make your head spin. He honestly believes that im cheating. Even when proof was in his face. his family knows, I know everyone (but him) knows I would never cheat! They say to give him some time... But I believe we're truly done this time. Heart hurts, tha whole damn thing is crazy. The same day I get his marriage packet? Gone. Done. But he wants me to come up on sunday!? You got to be joking! Friends he says???? I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I COULDNT BE IN THE SAME ROOM AND JUST BE FRIENDS! When it rains it pours... hml

[traviesita]

Its a crazy world to love a lifer.... hang in there.

[ThaLadylove21]

Yeah .. I believe hes honestly done. Im not going to visit him sunday.... I dont think I can do it

[crow woman]

Originally Posted by ThaLadylove21

I guess when its really good... Its gone so fast itll make your head spin. He honestly believes that im cheating. Even when proof was in his face. his family knows, I know everyone (but him) knows I would never cheat! They say to give him some time... But I believe we're truly done this time. Heart hurts, tha whole damn thing is crazy. The same day I get his marriage packet? Gone. Done. But he wants me to come up on sunday!? You got to be joking! Friends he says???? I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I COULDNT BE IN THE SAME ROOM AND JUST BE FRIENDS! When it rains it pours... hml

Sweetheart, all I can say is I know exactly how you feel! I know exactly because the SAME thing happened to me last year, and I AM married to my lifer for almost 7 years now. He tells me someone sent him a letter telling him that I cheated on him with another prisoner. Which is a blatant lie.He cut me out of his life for a full three months without even telling me what was going on. I was left in the dark for all that time, it was killing me. Like you, I would never cheat on anyone, let alone the one i loved with my whole heart and being. This drama happened in March last year and has never ended. Now, he accuses me of as he says it 'shagging up' with a guy. It is all the vicious tongues of other people and self fabrication of stories. I'm not with, nor ever have been with anyone but my husband in the 8 years I know him. Right now, we don't even talk anymore. It is a nightmare, but I have to go on with my life. He keeps accusing me of things I never did, like forge a inter spousal transfer deed which he refuses to sign. then he tells me they froze his account. He openly admitted he was with me for the money and the armcandy and now that I don't have any anymore, he tells me it is a dog eat dog world and that in prison it is about taking and not giving. He calls himself an Elder in the Native Community but he is nothing but a thug and I am sick of him, his insinuations and his accusations. I truly believe he has a serious mental disease and that he thinks that his make up stories are all true. He refuses to send me any proof that my friends sent him these letters. He destroyed our marriage and I am done with him, with his lies, with the whole prison wife stuff. Never again! I'm filing for a divorce. I gave him all I had.

All I can say to you girl, be happy that this ended before you got married. Many men in prison have no true feelings for anyone but themselves. I truly believed my husband was different, but now he told me it was all for the money.

Pick up the pieces and move on. Don't be friends with him, it is useless, they don't know the concept of friendship, they don't have friends, it really is a dog eat dog world in therel.

I wish you all the best of luck, your heart will heal, you are lucky this happened now and not after years of being married and thinking you found the love of your life.

[MarkLovesMe]

My heart feels for you, and in the same token I pray that things with my lifer will not turn out like this.

Some guys just have no respect and value for the great things they have. Its certainly his loss!

[proudadof2]

it has to be hard on him being locked up.just give him time he will come to and relize that he needs you