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Ja'untae · #1 12-27-2011, 04:14 PM

Hi, does me being the father of his only child and us living together makes me something like his wife? And if so would we be able to have contact visits?

**Lorraine** · #2 12-27-2011, 04:19 PM

In another one of your posts you said the two of you aren't even in a relationship and that he's actually with someone else. Living together and having a kid doesn't automatically make you married. The two of you would have had to be living as and presenting yourselves to the world as a married couple prior to his incarceration to be common law.

Ja'untae · #3 12-27-2011, 04:40 PM

We were dating 5yrs and was still living together when he got locked up,,,he met her a week before he got locked up. I am still considered his girlfriend when my in laws introduce me they say daughter n law, sister n law and niece,,,when he writes me he talks about getting back together and even having another child idk how serious they are but I cant be to serious,,,im just saying. Maybe just dont wanna tell her because she sends him all her money....anytime we part he always find his way back,,,,

dandm4life · #4 12-27-2011, 05:56 PM

Why would you want someone like that? Personally you sound like a intelligent women and you should have higher self esteem for that. Wow! I'm sorry just had to respond because this sounded awful. I'm sure by the sounds of it you love him but how in the world can you let someone treat you like that. It sounds like he does the same stuff to you. Maybe not with money but using you in some way. What a jerk! Good luck in your relationship and I hope that you find happiness sometime.

Ja'untae · #5 12-27-2011, 06:15 PM

Yea your right ,,,and thanxx but we have been going through this along time and we were kids when we had our child and still young and at the end of the day people mature and some change I love him true and he loves me as well its so much more than this here,,,we all make mistakes and im not covering for him because hell yea he was wrong but he's all mi daughter know and if he has changed like he say then why not give it another shot??? If I can save my family im all for it.