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ramzam · #76 01-07-2012, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by mrsharper17

from what i was told cccms is mental health stuff....when hubby was triple cms he was on medication for sleeping but that was on his first bid

Thank you for your response! I dont understand why he would be in the mental health unit. I hope he is okay. Extemely worried. Do you know if I call the prison will they let me know how he is doing? Will they make an exception for me to visit? I sent my visitor form in on the 26th of Dec.

MJ.Dubarr · #77 01-07-2012, 10:03 PM

Yay i had a visit today. I was so mad at the b*** cop who made me change 3 times. But still happy i got to see him. Thank You BamBam. U made it possible.

I miss him so much. I wish i cud see him agaib tomorrow. But i wudnt bring my son this time. He's such a handful

bambam618 · #78 01-07-2012, 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by MJ.Dubarr

Yay i had a visit today. I was so mad at the b*** cop who made me change 3 times. But still happy i got to see him. Thank You BamBam. U made it possible.

I miss him so much. I wish i cud see him agaib tomorrow. But i wudnt bring my son this time. He's such a handful

Ur so very welcome

i felt bad they made u change 3 times

mrsharper17 · #79 01-07-2012, 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by ramzam

Thank you for your response! I dont understand why he would be in the mental health unit. I hope he is okay. Extemely worried. Do you know if I call the prison will they let me know how he is doing? Will they make an exception for me to visit? I sent my visitor form in on the 26th of Dec.

Like i said its what i remember from his first bid...that was 06 i may be mistaken. But i know on parole if you are triple cms you have a no drinking condition and have to see the therapist frequently. So hubby made it a big issue to get off!!! He was using the meds to sleep but the ones that were not mental health counteracted with his seizure meds and this was a happy medium. IDK i think he just played their asses to get something to sleep and when they gave it to him it worked against the seizures so he screwed himself.....idk only he knows for sure i wasnt there...lol Calling the prison probably will not get you much if any answers at all. And i HIGHLY doubt you will get an exception to your visiting unless its an extreme emergency. life or death kinda thing. Sucks but your best bet is to just wait for mail. I havent heard much of anything for awhile from mine except a quick note saying see you in a couple weeks which from what i heard isnt true...idk delano sucks

jess11 · #80 01-08-2012, 11:05 AM

Yeah the best bet for u ladies worried about the condition of ur husband medical or anything for that matter call the counsler. and call alot if they dont answer. trust u can get answers u just got to make them talk. to them they r just a number so make them remember ur husbands and ur name. my husbands counsler knows me whenever i have a problem or question i call. i dont play when it comes to my husband.

jess11 · #81 01-08-2012, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by MJ.Dubarr

Yay i had a visit today. I was so mad at the b*** cop who made me change 3 times. But still happy i got to see him. Thank You BamBam. U made it possible.

I miss him so much. I wish i cud see him agaib tomorrow. But i wudnt bring my son this time. He's such a handful

Why did they make u change so much. i want be prepared i havent visited in a long time.

jess11 · #82 01-08-2012, 11:19 AM

Well i must say im in heaven right now. i spent the last 3 weeks visiting family n my husband wrote me a few letters while iwas there. i was just expecting more. i was mad at him cause i was writing a letter a day and he wasnt responding. when i got home from the visit i checked the mail and i had all kinds of mail and the most adorable drawing he made for our baby. it made me feel like a million dollars. i was so happy. and everyword was worth it. wow i had no idea i guess i under estimated my husband. i miss him even more now

MJ.Dubarr · #83 01-08-2012, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by bambam618

Ur so very welcome

i felt bad they made u change 3 times

I think she was on her rag or something. She made a lot of people change

MJ.Dubarr · #84 01-08-2012, 12:20 PM

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Why did they make u change so much. i want be prepared i havent visited in a long time.

First cuz my shirt was too low, second cuz my next shirt was see-thru even tho i had a black shirt underneath. By the second time i had to go to the trailer and change again. I was so heated i left my sweater in the bag with my "see-thru" shirt. Which by the way, she let me in before with that shirt and its not see-thru. The last thing i had on was an ugly hot pink blouse that i buttoned to the top.

MJ.Dubarr · #85 01-08-2012, 12:33 PM

I just had an idea and idk why it took me this long to think of it. Im broke as fuk and cant afford to buy my man a book so he can pass the time. So im going to photocopy the books i have at home, he hasnt read, and mail them. One chapter each envelope. And then he'll have a book. =)

jess11 · #86 01-08-2012, 04:45 PM

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I just had an idea and idk why it took me this long to think of it. Im broke as fuk and cant afford to buy my man a book so he can pass the time. So im going to photocopy the books i have at home, he hasnt read, and mail them. One chapter each envelope. And then he'll have a book. =)

Thats a good idea that is what i thought about doing with the erotica book they rejected from my husband. they have super cheap books on amazon. sometimes for pennies. the only thing is the shipping its an additional 3.99 to the cost of book.

MJ.Dubarr · #87 01-08-2012, 06:19 PM

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Thats a good idea that is what i thought about doing with the erotica book they rejected from my husband. they have super cheap books on amazon. sometimes for pennies. the only thing is the shipping its an additional 3.99 to the cost of book.

Everything is expensive. The phone calls, the packages, the gas to get there, on top of that books and stamps. Gosh! They made it a business.

Yea im just gonna mail him chapters. Save myself wat i dont have on books and shipping.

mrsharper17 · #88 01-08-2012, 07:12 PM

ya see all mine gets is mail....you wanted to get in trouble im not gunna go broke on the other shit

MJ.Dubarr · #89 01-08-2012, 07:18 PM

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ya see all mine gets is mail....you wanted to get in trouble im not gunna go broke on the other shit

Lol yup. I agree. Wats the point of learning the lesson if he's being spoiled. I'll visit him, talk to him wen i can, and do that instead of buying books.

mrsharper17 · #90 01-08-2012, 07:22 PM

yup.... i would rather spoil my kids....i used to want to put money on his books before we had kids but he told me no ....now i dont even want to ...i did a little in county when he wasnt eating well but now...uh uh nope. But the photocopy is a good idea. I used to send him printouts of our babys progress in the womb. i would send it through out my trimesters so he would "feel" a little more involved.

theres a book hubby wants to read that i have but he can wait til he get out

jess11 · #91 01-08-2012, 07:46 PM

i cant help it i have always loved spoiling my husband. even before any of his prison terms. He is a spoiled brat sometimes but i cant help it. i love doing it is a way for me to express my love. i dont go over bored though. but most of the time he always gets what he wants. imma big sucka for him. lol

jess11 · #92 01-08-2012, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by MJ.Dubarr

Everything is expensive. The phone calls, the packages, the gas to get there, on top of that books and stamps. Gosh! They made it a business.

Yea im just gonna mail him chapters. Save myself wat i dont have on books and shipping.

And u know what i jus thought of if they really wanted a book to read they have access to the book cart that comes aroung every month or something and they can choose a book. so yeah if anything they cant complain too much.

bambam618 · #93 01-08-2012, 08:02 PM

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i cant help it i have always loved spoiling my husband. even before any of his prison terms. He is a spoiled brat sometimes but i cant help it. i love doing it is a way for me to express my love. i dont go over bored though. but most of the time he always gets what he wants. imma big sucka for him. lol

i gotta agree if i have it ima spoil my husband

my big child hahaha ii tell him he's spoiled and his reaction is like so what? i deserve it.. i'd be spoiling you (so true

) so i can't be like that with him...specially now

mrsharper17 · #94 01-08-2012, 08:13 PM

well shit when i had the means to do it he would tell me no. I mean he doesnt ask now so its not like i deny him. He has always told me he can hustle in there so dont worry about him cuz i and now the kids need it more. idk if i could afford it i might send him something....i was planning on pkgs this time but he is still in reception and thought he would be getting out this month so i couldnt....which is still up in the air if he is or not...guess i will have to see when the release day comes

jess11 · #95 01-08-2012, 08:29 PM

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well shit when i had the means to do it he would tell me no. I mean he doesnt ask now so its not like i deny him. He has always told me he can hustle in there so dont worry about him cuz i and now the kids need it more. idk if i could afford it i might send him something....i was planning on pkgs this time but he is still in reception and thought he would be getting out this month so i couldnt....which is still up in the air if he is or not...guess i will have to see when the release day comes

I bet when you do send him something he loves it. it will mean so much more when he is out to spoil him. so save it up girl so you n him can really enjoy it.

mrsharper17 · #96 01-08-2012, 08:40 PM

ya true....we wanna do something with the kids

jess11 · #97 01-08-2012, 09:43 PM

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ya true....we wanna do something with the kids

That sounds nice. It will be great for you guys. by the time my husband comes home our baby will be 5 months so im hoping that we can plan something too. it will be our first family thing together.

mrsharper17 · #98 01-08-2012, 09:48 PM

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That sounds nice. It will be great for you guys. by the time my husband comes home our baby will be 5 months so im hoping that we can plan something too. it will be our first family thing together.

when he left they were 3 ans 6weeks old.....now they are 4 and 1yr old he missed so much but ya we wanna do something the kids can both enjoy ...idk cant afford disneyland but thinking of something like camping/fishing (him me and 4 yr old love fishing)

jess11 · #99 01-08-2012, 10:20 PM

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when he left they were 3 ans 6weeks old.....now they are 4 and 1yr old he missed so much but ya we wanna do something the kids can both enjoy ...idk cant afford disneyland but thinking of something like camping/fishing (him me and 4 yr old love fishing)

Wow im hoping that mine doesnt do the same. he swears it his last time. i keep my faith in him and god that it is so that our family will stay together. props to you girl keeping it together for your family. a family trip will be great for u guys

mrsharper17 · #**100** 01-08-2012, 11:29 PM

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Wow im hoping that mine doesnt do the same. he swears it his last time. i keep my faith in him and god that it is so that our family will stay together. props to you girl keeping it together for your family. a family trip will be great for u guys

ya i feel you...mine said his 1st time was the last cuz he hated it there...yada yada yada....well this is #6...lol the parole system seems to be set up for them to fail...minus this trip now all his violations have been sooooo stupid...he did his last for having his own bottle of prescription pills on him tylenol 3s for goodness sake!!! they were in the bottle and he had just injured him self "down there" a couple days prior. He was working all day and when the cop arrested him he said possession for sales. Really?? Court threw it out within 2 days. they brought him back the day after arriagnment to dismiss all charges. But parole decided to violate him anyways. Even brought in an employee from the store who he had been talking to and the guy said NO he wasnt selling them. I have the entire board hearing on tape in my house. I have listened to it 100 times. Its Bullshit. But hopefully they are not as hard on yours and hopefully mine can finally get off. This time he was ONE month from discharging....lol now we have to start all over again. But ya a trip to spend some time as a fam will help alot. I need a break from everything and he needs to spend fun time with the kids outside of daily routine