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AllSmiless · #**526** 04-23-2012, 02:29 PM

last letter i got from babe was last thursday and he was mad because he dont think im writing him. even though ive wrote him like 6 letters in a week. he also thinks i didn't put money in his account. i did the jpay on Friday at 6pm but that Monday he say he still hadn't got it. *sigh* hopefully he got it on tuesday.

Joshua's_Girl · #**527** 04-23-2012, 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by AllSmiless

last letter i got from babe was last thursday and he was mad because he dont think im writing him. even though ive wrote him like 6 letters in a week. he also thinks i didn't put money in his account. i did the jpay on Friday at 6pm but that Monday he say he still hadn't got it. *sigh* hopefully he got it on tuesday.

Isn't there a number you can call to check his account to find out? I know in FL they do!

Beachhouse · #**528** 04-23-2012, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Lazysbby

Eyy your not bad...its only right....another woman visiting ur man....hell no

I won't find out about the visit until he calls or writes. She is bold enough to txt me to see what day she can go but not to txt to say she went. She was bragging that he kissed her before and he said the idea repulsed him so I'm not too concerned but I do hope she flaked. She has before.

Beachhouse · #**529** 04-23-2012, 04:35 PM

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That is what I told him....he knew that already, but thanked me for being concerned about it and him!

Awwww! Sweet.

Beachhouse · #**530** 04-23-2012, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Joshua's_Girl

Isn't there a number you can call to check his account to find out? I know in FL they do!

In Cali you can't check. I don't it money so not 100% sure.

tomsgirl76 · #**531** 04-23-2012, 05:17 PM

joining the no mail team. no letters in 12 days.

Joshua's_Girl · #**532** 04-23-2012, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by tomsgirl76

joining the no mail team. no letters in 12 days.

Aww I am sorry hun!

What part of TN are you from?

tomsgirl76 · #**533** 04-23-2012, 06:45 PM

memphis. hello neighbor!

Chucos Queen · #**534** 04-23-2012, 09:23 PM

I got a card with a letter today that was soooo sweet. Then another letter that he was agitated in

my poor baby is having such a hard time. I hate its completely out of my control, hes just so home sick.

Beachhouse · #**535** 04-23-2012, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by tomsgirl76

joining the no mail team. no letters in 12 days.

I hope you get some soon! Maybe all at once even. : )

Sheryl P. · #**536** 04-24-2012, 03:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Beachhouse

In Cali you can't check. I don't it money so not 100% sure.

In California you can't check account balance,charges or convictions or sentence.Not even date of birth.
They are pretty into maintaining the confidential aspect.You can't even see the booking photo online.

Joshua's_Girl · #**537** 04-24-2012, 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Chucos Queen

I got a card with a letter today that was soooo sweet. Then another letter that he was agitated in

my poor baby is having such a hard time. I hate its completely out of my control, hes just so home sick.

I am glad that you got mail from him, but it sucks when they are aggitated.

jasortiz0702 · #**538** 04-24-2012, 08:09 AM

Back on the no mail bandwagon!!! I really hate this..I have been writing every single day and my last letter was last Monday..it sucks because he is on restriction with no phone and no canteen and in his last letter he was low on stamps...so this sucks..I feel so shitty waiting and not knowing if I did something wrong..I hate thinking like that...Fingers crossed that we all get mail from our LOs soon!!

Sheryl P. · #**539** 04-24-2012, 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by jasortiz0702

Back on the no mail bandwagon!!! I really hate this..I have been writing every single day and my last letter was last Monday..it sucks because he is on restriction with no phone and no canteen and in his last letter he was low on stamps...so this sucks..I feel so shitty waiting and not knowing if I did something wrong..I hate thinking like that...Fingers crossed that we all get mail from our LOs soon!!

I highly doubt the lack of mail has anything to do with you.
When they are on restriction,they can't do much about it and things get slowed way down or stopped altogether.
I hope you get mail soon but dont sweat it if you dont .He is probably wanting to hear from you just as much!

jasortiz0702 · #**540** 04-24-2012, 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Sheryl P.

I highly doubt the lack of mail has anything to do with you.
When they are on restriction,they can't do much about it and things get slowed way down or stopped altogether.
I hope you get mail soon but dont sweat it if you dont .He is probably wanting to hear from you just as much!

Thanks so much!! I just always worry that its me. Its just shitty waiting. I will keep you posted!

Trademark · #**541** 04-24-2012, 12:45 PM

I am back on the "no mail" list again

.....and I am sure he is writing, it's just San Quentin doing its slooooow mail routine. Just when I saw an improvement this last month it's back to this

Ughhhh!

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Beachhouse · #**542** 04-24-2012, 02:44 PM

I got mail today and it's got relationship stuff in it. I asked a question - " what do you think it means when I say I love you?". He said "that's deep, ask me in person." Eeak!! That's why I said it in the letter. Now I'm nervous.

mandarose · #**543** 04-24-2012, 02:49 PM

two days without mail..but I expected it he writes too much lol he ran out of stamps!! Today he gets some more yay.. so idk this week will be sucky..
Luckily we talk every day otherwise I'd be depressed without letters :^)

Rêveuse · #**544** 04-24-2012, 02:54 PM

Waiting since 10 f****** weeks, still nothing...

I wish I would at least know what is going on there and why I haven't received anything since such a long time. Ugh, it's driving me nuts.

Lazysbby · #**545** 04-24-2012, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Beachhouse

I won't find out about the visit until he calls or writes. She is bold enough to txt me to see what day she can go but not to txt to say she went. She was bragging that he kissed her before and he said the idea repulsed him so I'm not too concerned but I do hope she flaked. She has before.

Omg i would never be ok wit that...You sure are strong to accept that

Beachhouse · #**546** 04-24-2012, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Lazysbby

Omg i would never be ok wit that...You sure are strong to accept that

She didn't flake. She went from 10:30 to 1pm when he said he had to leave. I'm only strong because I believe and trust him and know nothing she says or does is trustworthy. He wrote and said that she brought gossip and he said not to mention his name to anyone. She also reported she is seeing some guy. Truthfully I doubt it unless he's on drugs or she's paying him. (mean side of me) She's too much of a freak. I trust my guy. We are still in the "dating" stage but if we enter into full on relationship status I'd rather she not visit. I feel like I can't completely ask for that yet but I could then. Maybe I can now. Either way she isn't a threat to me. As far as he goes, just to me in the town I live in since no one knows I see him.

Now I have to figure out how to talk to him at visit about the love comment. That's hard for me, I'm shy. I fear rejection.

Chucos Queen · #**547** 04-24-2012, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Rêveuse

Waiting since 10 f****** weeks, still nothing...

I wish I would at least know what is going on there and why I haven't received anything since such a long time. Ugh, it's driving me nuts.

10 Weeks with no letter?? Have you talked to him? I would be freaking out too! I hope you hear from him soon. Keep your head up and think positives thoughts

Joshua's_Girl · #**548** 04-24-2012, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Beachhouse

I got mail today and it's got relationship stuff in it. I asked a question - " what do you think it means when I say I love you?". He said "that's deep, ask me in person." Eeak!! That's why I said it in the letter. Now I'm nervous.

Maybe he wants to give you his answer in person, instead of a letter. Maybe he wants to take it farther and deeper and wants to tell you in person for it to be truely worth while!

Joshua's_Girl · #**549** 04-24-2012, 07:09 PM

No letter from J today but that is ok. I hope I get a letter from him tomorrow. This week has started out rocky and it is only getting worse. So a letter from J will pick up my spirits and I will have alot to tell him in this letter too!

Beachhouse · #**550** 04-24-2012, 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Joshua's_Girl

Maybe he wants to give you his answer in person, instead of a letter. Maybe he wants to take it farther and deeper and wants to tell you in person for it to be truely worth while!

I hope so. But to ask in person it's such a large question. I'm not sure I have the guts. I asked my son he says "it means you like me mom"