Update: First letter from him and first visit tonight!!

[burgandyrain]

I recieved my first letter from John yesterday. He went in on Tuesday. It was such a relief to hear from him as I had doubts about him still wanting to get married. He told me he loves me and to have faith in our love.

He is in on a parole violation and his hearing is next Thurs. I am going to drive the 3 hours to see him tonight for the first time since he went in and am sooooooo excited to go.

My mother is the one who called him in to his PO because he came to see me out of state. She has flipped her rocker. She is claiming to some relatives of mine that they asked her to go to his revocation hearing to tell them he was out of his state. I thought no one was allowed at these. Does anyone know if this is true because if she can be there so can I right??????

My mother also sent me a nasty email last night demanding to see the grandkids but I feel they need to keep as much routine right now as possible. Then my aunt showed up at my door and said my mother took off and is saying she is gonna commit suicide. Does the drama ever end with her? She wants me and John apart and is grasping at straws to get her way (big time control freak). Anyone have anything similar or any suggestions how to deal with this?

Wish me luck tonight, he is in county so I have to talk to a glass wall but its better than nothing.

Burg

[Daviewmaster]

Good luck with your visit! The drive will be long, but it will be worth it to show your support (which helps him) and see his smile (which helps you) and laugh together(which helps you both!) Have fun, and drive safe!