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Frog88 · #1 05-16-2012, 07:06 PM

Excuse my curiosity... But what's waiting for you man when he comes home? (other than an extremely loving and supportive gf/wife)

I mean more on the financial, work force type thing. Does your man have a job waiting for him? Does he plan on going to school? Does he already have a degree? Or will he just have to figure it out as you go kinda thing?

Scotties_Girl21 · #2 05-16-2012, 07:10 PM

He has a job waiting for him, a place of our OWN thanks to his awesome mother, a new car (well not brand new, but new to him cuz he wrecked his lol) ,and if he can't finish his GED he's gonna work on that as well.

Klewis · #3 05-16-2012, 07:28 PM

My Fiance' does not have anything waiting on him except support. Everything he is going to have to get out and get on his own with my support. I was not with him when he got locked up so I don't have any of his stuff. His brother is a well known underground rapper out here and the muslim community believe in helping their own so he should be able to find a job pretty quick.

Southernsun · #4 05-16-2012, 07:37 PM

My baby does have work lined up....a few clothes im getting a little at a time..some movies we have talked about that we want to c ( I bought the DVD' s cause he wasn't here when they came out that way we c them for the first time together) oh yeah and a DOG lol

<3 Heart belongs to Droopy <3

dalesgirl · #5 05-16-2012, 08:29 PM

He will have me and a place to live with me. Hopefully by the time he gets home I will be done with school and in a decent job. He has some job possibilities, but its 18 months still so it is sort of wait and see. He will start school about 3 months after he comes home, he has about half of it done already. He is coming home to a supportive group of friends and family. We will hopefully have a lot of his fines paid and I already have a savings started. We have a vehicle. He lost everything he had when he went down, so we will be shopping for clothes as soon as he gets out. Okay now you made me sad, thinking about the amount of time we have left.

InmateLover67 · #6 05-16-2012, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Chris' Lady

Excuse my curiosity... But what's waiting for you man when he comes home? (other than an extremely loving and supportive gf/wife)

I mean more on the financial, work force type thing. Does your man have a job waiting for him? Does he plan on going to school? Does he already have a degree? Or will he just have to figure it out as you go kinda thing?

My fiance has a honey-do list 50 miles long waiting for him when he gets out.

Yes, he has a job waiting for him. He has talked about going to school, but I do not think his ADHD will allow him to stay focused...lol

Peace~

Mypast? · #7 05-16-2012, 08:45 PM

He has nothing but the emotional support I can give him and one other friend (maybe) his soon to be ex-wife is taking everything, he lost his job and his son has left the state with his vehicle. How he will move forward I don't know. I'm worried for him honestly.

Frog88 · #8 05-16-2012, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by InmateLover67

My fiance has a honey-do list 50 miles long waiting for him when he gets out.

Yes, he has a job waiting for him. He has talked about going to school, but I do not think his ADHD will allow him to stay focused...lol

Peace~

Lol oh I would love to hear what some of those to do lists tasks include..

Better get it right!

Frog88 · #9 05-16-2012, 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Mypast?

He has nothing but the emotional support I can give him and one other friend (maybe) his soon to be ex-wife is taking everything, he lost his job and his son has left the state with his vehicle. How he will move forward I don't know. I'm worried for him honestly.

How long does he have till he comes home? How old is he?

klmg · #10 05-16-2012, 10:32 PM

My hubby is looking forward to going back to school! Can't wait!! Also a brand new spanky house all of our own...and our 3 loving puppies who I'm hoping will bombard him and leave me alone for awhile! LOL

samazing · #11 05-16-2012, 10:47 PM

There is what I wish I could give him and then there's reality. I recently bought a car (doesn't sound like such a feat, but I'm proud of myself... I'm 19 and just moved across the US with nothing but a suitcase full of clothes), so we have transportation... (wish I could buy him one, but that will come once he has a job). I have bought him some new clothes and misc items.... Movies/books, pistachios (he likes them idk lol), shoes, etc. I also have my "Ben's Savings Account" strictly for him and restitution, fines, etc. And lastly, which is the most fun for me, our apartment! OUR home, for our sanity and privacy. Gosh I am so excited for us to have that! I've made out this detailed list of everything I will need from qtips to furniture, lol! I've really already crossed so much off of that list! I guess I forgot to add "bangin bod" to the list, lol. I haven't even lifted a finger to exercise...so I better get on it if I want him to come home to one!

Mrs.taylor2011 · #12 05-16-2012, 10:53 PM

Hopefully he'll come out to our new apt/house & hes suppose to start school since he loves working on cats hes going to school for it..& he should start back working at his old car shop job ..

Princess1029 · #13 05-16-2012, 11:08 PM

He has plans to either go to school or start a business! Other than that just family & myself. & our furry children! (dog & cat) lol... & now we will be sharing a car he says I have to drive him around psh! I told him he has years of driving to make up for especially that 600 miles each way I drive to visit lol!

NeverDull · #14 05-18-2012, 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Chris' Lady

Excuse my curiosity... But what's waiting for you man when he comes home? (other than an extremely loving and supportive gf/wife)

I mean more on the financial, work force type thing. Does your man have a job waiting for him? Does he plan on going to school? Does he already have a degree? Or will he just have to figure it out as you go kinda thing?

My man will be deported back to Moldova which is the poorest country in Europe. He has a 4-year degree in International Studies and wanted to eventually be some kind of ambassador or politician or something but who knows if he can do that with a felony in the United States now. He will go home to a VERY angry father, a sick mother, a dying grandmother in Ukraine, and a brand new nephew, and being 6,000 miles away from his woman (me). Who the hell knows what is going to happen.....ugh.

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Amanda_UWW · #15 05-18-2012, 08:28 AM

When he comes home we will be living with his mother (I already do) until we get on our feet and pay of my student loans and his restitution. He does have a job waiting for him but he doesn't get out for 6 years so we have back up plans. The only thing we can really depend on is us... So we are working at starting up our own business. He has many great ideas and I KNOW we will beat the statistics and make it in the world after so much time in prison.

Beachhouse · #16 05-18-2012, 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Chris' Lady

Excuse my curiosity... But what's waiting for you man when he comes home? (other than an extremely loving and supportive gf/wife)

I mean more on the financial, work force type thing. Does your man have a job waiting for him? Does he plan on going to school? Does he already have a degree? Or will he just have to figure it out as you go kinda thing?

This is actually a great question. Mine was self employed before and we are saving all the stuff he needs and used for his job. At least for now. He has an associates degree and wants a bachelors. He spent all his money on his trial attorney so he will have to rebuild. He will be gone, as of right now for a long time so he has time to prepare.

TraeNBoo · #17 05-18-2012, 11:43 AM

A home and his family!

Byyourside247 · #18 05-18-2012, 12:05 PM

Its so hard to even think about the future, with Gods favor my man will be out in November of 2012 I know its not a long time but my situation is a bit different he has an immigration hold so when he gets realesed he will probably be deported if I can't get an immigration lawyer to get him out on a bond so I'm saving as much as I can trying to figure out what to do with all of our household stuff since its a 50/50 chance but not knowing its killing me since if he does get deported I will be going with him I wish I can have our house set up again but whatever it is I will be happy just to be next to him.

NeverDull · #19 05-18-2012, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Byyourside247

Its so hard to even think about the future, with Gods favor my man will be out in November of 2012 I know its not a long time but my situation is a bit different he has an immigration hold so when he gets realesed he will probably be deported if I can't get an immigration lawyer to get him out on a bond so I'm saving as much as I can trying to figure out what to do with all of our household stuff since its a 50/50 chance but not knowing its killing me since if he does get deported I will be going with him I wish I can have our house set up again but whatever it is I will be happy just to be next to him.

Awww, sweetie...I'm in the same boat and it sucks soooo much!!! I have NO problem with the time...my man will be done December 2012....in the long run its knowing there's no way he will be able to stay in the US or ever come back again.

Mcox'sbabygirl · #20 05-18-2012, 02:26 PM

I bought us a farm that we are going to have rescue animals. fortunately we had $$ before he went in but he wants to go to school to work with at risk youth. I hope he does he had been in the system since 12. He is 30. Next time he will be a habitual offender [due to plea did not get it this time) so I think he knows this is it for chances

Byyourside247 · #21 05-18-2012, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by NeverDull

Awww, sweetie...I'm in the same boat and it sucks soooo much!!! I have NO problem with the time...my man will be done December 2012....in the long run its knowing there's no way he will be able to stay in the US or ever come back again.

It really sucks but I know God has somenthing better for us

we just gotta keep our heads up cause this too shall pass

countryzgirl · #22 05-18-2012, 03:00 PM

He has a home, his stuff, my help (within reason), sobriety and the opportunity to make it work this time.

ilovecoffee · #23 05-18-2012, 03:01 PM

He has me, we still have to figure everything out but we have some time on are hands lol

hismess · #24 05-19-2012, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Chris' Lady

Excuse my curiosity... But what's waiting for you man when he comes home? (other than an extremely loving and supportive gf/wife)

I mean more on the financial, work force type thing. Does your man have a job waiting for him? Does he plan on going to school? Does he already have a degree? Or will he just have to figure it out as you go kinda thing?

He's got all the kids, family, a bunch of friends & me! He's also got a job waiting on him. He comes home on Friday & after a weekend with the kids & family, I'm taking Monday off so we have the day together & run errands & then he starts work Tuesday!!! We'll both work the rest of that week & then I'm off work for the week of july 4th! He may work a few days that week. But we're not sure yet. Then its off to save $ & find us a place of our own & get him a truck! Lmao!

mrs.marks · #25 05-19-2012, 08:28 PM

My husband has a lot of time watching the kids to look forward to, this mama needs some sleep!

Seriously though, our 18 month old daughter was born while he was locked up, and I've only taken her to visit 3 times so he gets to get to know her. And he hasn't seen my older two girls at all since they were 1 and 2 (they're almost 4 and 5 now) so he gets to get to know them as well. He's got me and a few of his family members. He doesn't have a job lined up, but we'll make it. I'm graduating next spring. It's only my associate's degree, but hey it's a start.