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Cathykb · #**126** 12-19-2003, 01:25 PM

I had to giggle at Dannysmom's note. John is my honey and hopefully some day my husband. And Austin is his little boy from a previous relationship. I'm only 23...no grandkids for me LOL
He never got moved from county jail. They were going to send him to Bonne Terre, and then the PO had said he'd probably go to Booneville. Instead, yesterday we got the news that the PO was not going to revoke his Parole and he'd be getting out on Christmas Eve. :fb: I can not stop smiling!
The only thing is some of my friends are giving me grief about letting him stay with me. We've been friends since before either of us hit puberty, but this is still a new relationship. Everybody keeps telling me that I'm making a big mistake by letting him do his house arrest at my place.
I suppose we'll just see what happens. I'm not going to turn him away. His family ran out on him when he was in his pre-teens. I'm not going to run out on him also.

densebrit · #**127** 12-19-2003, 01:48 PM

Life's about taking chances. You don't try, you don't ask - you don't get

Your friends concerns are commendable, in that they care about you - but if it was their partners - would they think you're entitled to have a say? Go for it, girl. God plans - if our life is meant to be with this man - it'll happen

My man was on Death Row - I've even had friends cruel enough, and well-intentioned (??) enough to say that if he is released, he'll be so marked by the experience he'll be traumatised enough to kill me. Well, if that's the way God planned it - that's what's meant to happen.. Personally - I believe in things happening for a reason, and believe we'll get through anything if we just stand strong. You stand by your man, your love, and your beliefs, until you've got anything other than hearsay to prove you wrong

Dannysmom · #**128** 12-19-2003, 05:32 PM

Oh Kathy I am so sorry I miss understood what you was saying. I am happy for you . Hang in there girlfriend.
dannysmom

nicksmom · #**129** 12-21-2003, 09:41 PM

Hi this is Nicksmom and my son just came to Cameron Missouri last week he is in{WMCC} western mo correctional center.He was in St.Joseph before that and in Liberty Missouri for 11 months. We have been having medical problems with him he was doing great in liberty than when they transfered him to st.joseph they decided to change his medicine. he was having seizures and having troble walking the inmates were helping him and watching over him.Finally I received the information that I needed on this web site. I e-mailed the Institutional Chief of Mental Health for Western Missouri,they e-mailed me back the same day. I'm sure glad I found this Forum. God Bless you all

msveggie · #**130** 12-21-2003, 10:08 PM

Nicksmom, which side is your son on? My son is there also. If he is on the same side with my son the first place they go is into housing unit 10.

Are you going to visit on Christmas? If so maybe I'll see you there. I'm going in the afternoon and evening session. We've planned a food visit. Maybe we'll run into each other sometime.

Cathykb · #**131** 12-30-2003, 03:13 PM

Hey folks!! Just dropping in to say hey. Honey didn't get to come home on Christmas Eve as planned.

His PO decided to make him wait another week. So he comes home tomorrow, which happens to be his birthday on top of New Year's Eve. One week sure beats six years, and at least we'll get to bring in the new year together. But I swear the minutes have been creeping by this past week LOL

Hope you all had a Merry Christmas

Dannysmom · #**132** 12-30-2003, 05:51 PM

Kathy,
I am sure it has been a very slow week for you but just think of the rewards at the end. I know you are very anxiously awaiting the appointed time to go and pick him up and bring him home.
Good luck .
dannysmom

mstar · #**133** 12-31-2003, 08:59 PM

hi everyone, my hubby's in Farmington correctional. been in for a year and a half- we were married last june. has two and a half years before parole (hopefully) date. it's been just awful lonely, but i've kinda gotten used to it- thank God for my cats!! oh oh- the just broke something- i heard a crash!! gotta go - but hey!!! HAPPY NEW YEAR !!! to all of us !!!

prettyfeet · #**134** 01-03-2004, 10:52 AM

hello my name is missy and i'm a resident in mo and my husband is currently @ secc i'm new to the forum as you may see i just joined in dec wishing everyone a happy new year's :fb:

Dannysmom · #**135** 01-03-2004, 01:13 PM

Welcome to pto Prettyfeet we are glad to have you here. There are a lot of nice people going through the same thing you are. My son is in St. Joseph prison. How long has your husband been in ? If you have any questions just ask.
dannysmom

prettyfeet · #**136** 01-03-2004, 03:47 PM

thnx 4 the welcome dannysmom. he's been in 4 awhile. just waiting on homecoming

Dannysmom · #**137** 01-03-2004, 05:04 PM

prettyfeet,
We are all waiting on the homecomeing . My son is due to get out in feb 05.
dannysmom

Jen664 · #**138** 01-05-2004, 02:33 AM

Hi all Happy New Year! My name is Jen and my husband is a perm at FRDC serving a 4 year sentence. He is scheduled for parole May 13th. (So long as he stays out of trouble) He keeps forgetting to sign out. So I made him put post it notes in his hat, gloves on his TV, bed etc. Because next time he will go to the hole. I know quite a bit about FRDC. My mom worked there for 15 years and recently retired. Jen

Dannysmom · #**139** 01-05-2004, 08:27 AM

Jen
Is that Fulton? My son was there for some time. He spent his time before this one in fulton . He is in St. Joseph this time. He is to be out in feb 2005.
dannysmom

mom_on_mission · #**140** 01-05-2004, 09:49 AM

Hi Iam Maxine my son was in wmcc he was the inmate that died while he was there. We are still waiting to find out any info. This all happened back in Sept.

Dannysmom · #**141** 01-05-2004, 01:10 PM

Maxine ,
Isn't that Cameron? If so my son was there. What is your sons name? I can ask my son what he knows when he calls me . I can not remember when they moved him to St.Joe .You can pm me with the info if you want to.
dannysmom

Luckydky · #**142** 01-05-2004, 08:28 PM

Hi, my name is Luckydky. I live in Jefferson County and my b/f is in Pacific. He is waiting to see which treatment center he will be sent to. Could be anywhere, hopefully not too far. We were together before he went in.

Dannysmom · #**143** 01-05-2004, 09:35 PM

Luckydky ,
If I am right I think fulton has a treatment center. That should be really close. My son is in ST. Joseph and that is a drug treatment center plus diagnostic center. Good luck with his placement.
Has you b/f always been in pacific?
dannysmom

PoohBearsGirl · #**144** 01-05-2004, 09:51 PM

Luckydky,

Depending on what treatment he is going for ... A lot of them also go to Farmington. We used to be at Pacific, but have since transferred to Bowling Green. When we were at Pacific most of the guys that left for treatment went to Farmington.

Luckydky · #**145** 01-17-2004, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by PoohBearsGirl

Luckydky,

Depending on what treatment he is going for ... A lot of them also go to Farmington. We used to be at Pacific, but have since transferred to Bowling Green. When we were at Pacific most of the guys that left for treatment went to Farmington.

Thanks for replying. I'm worried because my b/f said that he may go to Maryville and it's about 5 hours away from St.L. I don't see why they would send him so far away from his family. He is in for DWI's. :argh

Luckydky · #**146** 01-17-2004, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Dannysmom

Luckydky ,
If I am right I think fulton has a treatment center. That should be really close. My son is in ST. Joseph and that is a drug treatment center plus diagnostic center. Good luck with his placement.
Has you b/f always been in pacific?
dannysmom

Hi, thanks for replying. No, he was in Bonne Terre diagnostic center first,from July to Sept. Then he was sent to Pacific with the intention of sending him to a treatment center. I hear that the treatment can be anywhere from 9 months to a year and then he will be eligible for parole.

HapinsWilFoloU · #**147** 01-18-2004, 04:54 PM

My son is in Missouri system. His fiance is in the system there also. The other son just was re-incarcerated there as well. I am writing to a friend in the system. I have other male family who have been there and are out now or on their way back in. I don't get it. Just when I think I understand someone else is arrested and put in jail out there. It's scary and I am afraid most of the time. I am very afraid.

Dannysmom · #**148** 01-18-2004, 05:37 PM

Hapinswilfolu,
Why are you afraid? I know how hard it is . My son is in for the third time. It is not easy and I know how flustrating it is . That is what this site is for . For us to help each other out . Together we will make it through this. If there is anything I can do
Just pm me I will do what I can do. Where do you live ?
dannysmom

dlamb · #**149** 01-18-2004, 09:53 PM

i live in missouri, but my husband is in a federal prison in arkansas. my step son is in a state facility in kansas. i would love for some one to email me, i have not yet visited with anyone on this site. thanks, deblamb@centurytel.net

dlamb · #**150** 01-18-2004, 10:09 PM

hi , i am new to this site, this situatoin, and to computors,so this may show up a couple of times. this is my second try. my name is debbie and i live in missouri, the ozarks area. my husband has recently been sent to a federal prison in arkansas. his sentence is 10 years.we have been married for 9 years. our anniversary was fri jan. 16th. i love him and plan to stand by him always. i would love to have someone email me. glad to meet all of you. deblamb@centurytel.net