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myjutebe · #51 01-21-2005, 01:59 PM

My husband is a VO because he got charged with Assault with Great Bodily Injury for defending himself in a bar fight. We are appealing this sentence but I am not sure anything will come of it. They gave him 6 years at 85%.

My baby is a sweetie and would never hurt a fly. He pretends he is some tough guy in prison and snarls at people but I just look at him and say knock it off you dork and of course he does.

So unfortunately I am married to a violent offender

itzmydestiny · #52 03-03-2005, 12:21 AM

I guess you can say that my husband is a violent , he was covicted of murder

9MM · #53 03-03-2005, 07:23 AM

My man is a VO armed robbery, but I love him regardless!!

one_luv · #54 03-04-2005, 04:12 PM

My husband is a tru thug. He's reformed. I am so proud of him. He is the kindest, most loving man, he treats me 1,000% better than any other guys I've been with. I can count the number of times he has rasied his voice to me, he has never called me a mean name and has never frightened me. I think one reason I fell so much in love with him was because how society saw him compared to the person he really is.
But, he has a reputation. No one messes with him. Ever. Unless they want trouble.

johnsbabygirl31 · #55 03-04-2005, 04:19 PM

John is considered a VO because when they got raided they also found guns so they consider him a VO dumb I swear but that's how thing's go I guess he has a bad temper but not anything to harm anothers life

marcsbaby · #56 03-09-2005, 11:18 PM

Wow...I have really enjoyed reading everyone's responses...
Even though our men are considered Violent Offenders, we know in our hearts that they are good hearted human beings.....
Just wanted to say that I love my Violent Offender!
Hope you all are having a great night
~Katie

PowandVonne · #57 03-12-2005, 04:48 PM

My husband is considered as violent offender. Hanging with people he considered his "friends". Attempted murder charge...but in my eyes it was self defense because he was shit at. Either way no one was hurt. Sentence 9-18 yrs...time served so far, 11 yrs. Goes to the parole board in July.

seansgram · #58 03-12-2005, 05:14 PM

My grandson is considered a VO. At 17 he was with an adult that robbed a store and the adult had a gun. my grandson was outside (lokout) he was high on the adults meds and they went to two different places. He got 20 yrs. The adult got 21. My grandson never had the gun, and never in the buildings. yes he needed time but this is damn rediculous.
so he is labeled a VO

JerseySeagull · #59 03-12-2005, 05:24 PM

My husband at the "tender" age of 42, was in a car accident and the other guy died. They were never able to prove it was Tony's fault, but since he had beer in his system (.08 - "legal" limit is .10) and prescription valium from the night before, he was considered reckless. This is a man who for 42 years, followed the letter of the law, NEVER being in trouble before, not so much as a speeding ticket, married 21 years, three kids, total provider for us, is now considered a violent offender and was sentenced to 7 years 85% in a medium security prison two hours away. Oh yeah, soiety is sooooo much safer now!
Suzanne

CougarsGrl4Ever · #60 03-12-2005, 05:28 PM

My Husband was charged with agg. robbery at the age of 18(5yrs ago),,

This_Girl · #61 03-15-2005, 11:00 AM

My love is i guess you could a violent offender but i dont see him that way at all never have and never will

geneva11798 · #62 03-15-2005, 11:52 AM

My son's father is labled as a V.O. and he wasnt even there...It was a conspiracy charge...but they placed him at the scene. With the weapon he didnt hold and made him a V.O. Isnt that some SH*@ !!!

brownshuga27 · #63 03-15-2005, 10:58 PM

my baby is a VO. before he met me, he served 9yrs for Armed Robbery, he was 18 at the time. he is the most sweetest person i know and hasnt been violent towards me at all! i never saw him as that kind of person, and i would never be afraid of him.

Jimmy's baby · #64 03-22-2005, 08:43 AM

Yes my hunny is where he is because of a violent offense. He liked to fight...i swear since he was in third grade, and NOT ONE PERSON ever said "maybe this kid has some issues that he needs help with". I guess when your poor and amongst a dozen other kids, your labeled as a trouble maker instead of a troubled kid. Anyways...this is his first time ever in prison, but he got such a huge sentence, I know he won't go back. My hunny is made for the streets! So five years gone and two to go...we're almost there!

flamered · #65 03-22-2005, 10:38 AM

Mine is in now for a dv assault (bit my hand). When he was moved to yakima they placed him on the 4th floor with other violent offenders, he says it is their version of max security. He is there because "over 20 years ago" he was convicted on a murder 2 when he was 17. He did his time, now let it go. Since he bit me they consider his mouth a weapon & him a vo.

Smileyinez · #66 04-05-2005, 11:45 AM

My guy was young and stupid he was 16 when convicted from lack any parents in his life not having an structure in his life he was able to do whatever he wanted and started to hang with the wrong people and is now and forever will be known as a v/o but he is the sweetest, caring, lovnig, passionate MAN I have ever known.

BillieJo · #67 04-13-2005, 09:07 AM

I got one of those. battery to a police officer and attempt to disarm a peace officer is what we fighting now. in this case, HE IS innocent. there is no evidence to corroborate the BS police report. it's all good tho. everything happens for a reason.

AdamsWife · #68 04-13-2005, 10:21 AM

When Adam was 19 yrs old he got into a fight with a guy. He was charged with "assault w/ deadly weapon (his foot), producing great bodily injury".
Yes, now he is considered a Violent Offender.
Once upon a time he was a boy who got into lots of fights, but by the time I'd met him, two years after this happened, he'd grown up and learned his lessons and had become the sweetest guy ever... so much so in fact, that I fell in love with him and married him. My friends and I just could not believe he had this on-going case for a violent offense...it just seemed so "not him"

And yet, here we are

I guess it just goes to show that people grow up and people do change

Too bad he's gotta face 7-9 yrs in prison now that he's already reformed himself

p.s. Heck no I'm not afraid of my baby ~ he's a big baby faced angel to me

831cheecana · #69 04-21-2005, 03:44 PM

Hi, my son is a violent offeder the victim got stabbed 17 times. He was two other guys they all went down 7yrs (85%) this was my sons first time in juvenile hall. He was 17 and was traid as an adult he just got transfered to Corcoran. He told me when he was in juvenile hall "mom they look at me and treat me like I'm a murder" it broke my heart because he isn't a VO he's my baby

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venicespirit · #70 04-21-2005, 03:50 PM

My baby is also a VO. (Armed bank robbery), but with me he's as sweet as sweet can be.

MsStacey · #71 04-21-2005, 07:01 PM

My man was convicted of two counts ACA, but prison has made him more of a V.O than he used to be. He can't stay out of the hole!

Blueyez94 · #72 04-29-2005, 02:55 PM

My man is considered a violent offender...although he was in the wrong place at the wrong time with people he thought were his friends..he was charged with manslaughter and got 20 yrs...hes got 9yrs left...I don't consider him violent at all...he is a sweet and caring person...

gina_nc · #73 05-01-2005, 05:23 PM

I try not to think about what he did. I still can't believe he did it, but I only knew him after he was behind the wall. He's never shown a bit of anger, but letters don't normally facilitate that. I don't know, has it ever worried anyone when their person is close to getting out?

marthadylan · #74 05-15-2005, 07:33 PM

My, Bobby, is considered a "Violent Offender" because of the extent of his felonious assault charge....I wouldnt consider him violent!!! Sweet as can be...But he got in a fight and the guy did get his but kicked...

kayos-grl · #75 05-19-2005, 09:05 AM

My man is considered a VO, but I don't look at him that way. Yes, he had PART in what they said he did, but everything was put on him and the other 2 dudes got a deal and now they are walkin the streets. He wasn't tryin to be no snitch and it got him 30 years.